......youmeyaat afeefah

Love to death

2011-12-29T17:59:00.000+08:00

Alhamdulillah,

Thank you Allah for everything

The big things and the small

Thank you Allah for the miracles

The Giver of them all

Alhamdulillah

الحمدلله الذي بِنِعمَتِهِ تَتِمُّ الصَّالِحَات

Special advice for WIFE and WIFE TO BE

2011-12-07T21:23:00.002+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all dearest friend.

With my new status as Mrs Afeefahsza, im glad to share with you an advice on married life that stands out from all other was given by Ummah bint al- Harith to her daughter the day before her wedding.

I was blessed enough to have found such beautiful pearls, so please give me the pleasure of passing this advice on to you.

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When the bride was made ready to be taken to the groom, then the bride's mother Umamah came in to her, to advise her, and said:

Take from me 10 qualities which will be a reminder for you:

1. Be content in his company for contentment brings peace of mind.

2. Listen to and obey him and listening to and obeying one’s husband pleases Allah.

3. Make sure that you smell good and look good: he should not see anything ugly in you, and he should not smell anything but a pleasant smell from you.

4. Kohl is the best kind of beautification to be found, and water is better than the rarest perfume.

5. Prepare his food on time and for raging hunger is like a burning flame

6. Keep quiet when he is asleep and disturbing his sleep will make him angry.

7. Take care of his servants (or employees) and children and taking care of his children and servants shows good management.

8. Take care of his wealth, for taking care of his wealth shows that you appreciate him

9. Never disclose any of his secrets, if you disclose any of his secrets you will never feel safe from his possible betrayal

10. Never disobey any of his orders and if you disobey him, his heart will be filled with hatred towards you.

`Be careful, O my daughter, of showing joy in front of him when he is upset, and do not show sorrow in front of him when he is happy, because the former shows a lack of judgement, whilst the latter will make him unhappy.

`Show him as much honour and respect as you can, and agree with him as much as you can, so that he will enjoy your companionship and conversation.

`Know, O my daughter, that you will not achieve what you would like to until you put his pleasure before your own, and his wishes before yours, in whatever you like and dislike. And may Allah choose what is best for you and protect you.

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This advice clearly included everything that one could think of as regards the good manners that a young girl needs to know about in order to treat her husband properly and be a suitable companion for him.

Im trying my best to make all the advices being practised in my life, inshallah. Please pray for me :)

Just married 11/11/11

2011-11-15T11:29:00.002+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all dear friends.

I got married, alhamdulillah

me: بنت زين العابدين
my husband: بن زين العابدين

We shared same father's name :)

العروس: عفيفة صالحة
العريس: محمد حافظ

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مبرووووووك

credit to synabihah

Best solution

2011-10-25T12:35:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all honorable friends

Whenever someone is very close to God and has been doing good deeds and contributing to others in one's life time he will be rewarded with the best solution for any problem that he might have.

Not yet

2011-10-13T13:50:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all dear friends.

It's just a picture.

Convocation

i got jealous

me? not yet.. -.-

So sorry bout yesterday

2011-09-30T12:21:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all dear friends.

So sweet
So adorable!
My heart just melted. Oh.
We should learn how be honest and admit mistakes :)

She is japanese-caucasian mix.
Great parenting.

How to turn around a bad day??

2011-09-13T20:49:00.000+08:00

She is monologing:

Today is a bad day for me.

Hope everything will go well.

So how to turn around a bad day?

Make your day better by reciting the doa below:

حَسْبِيَ الله وَنِعْمَ الوَكِيل

Allah is Sufficient for me and He is the Best Disposer of affairs.

**Pray for me everyone. Don't forget me in your doa. Thanks!

Eid Saeed 1432 H

2011-08-31T23:23:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all beloved friends.

عَيْدٌ سَعِيدٌ عَلَى أُمَّةِ الِإسْلَامِ قَاطِبَة

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/▌*˛˚ ░ تقبل الله طاعاتكم ... عيد فطر سعيد ... و كل عام و انتم بخير ░
/ \ ˚. ★ ˛ ˚♥♥ ✰。˚ ˚ღ。* ˛˚ ♥♥ 。✰˚* ˚ ★ღ ˚ 。✰ •* ˚ ♥♥"✰

كُلُّ عَامٍ وَأَنتُم بِأَلْفِ خَيْر

Every year and you're in a thousand good-(literally)

هَنِيئاً لَكُم

Enjoy your meal !

With love,

عفيفة صالحة

Arabic number? emm,no...

2011-08-22T22:04:00.007+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all honorable friends.

Number or numeral? which one is correct?
Both are correct.

For today's entry i'm glad to share with you about number in arabic and some important facts about arabic number.

If you can utter from 1 to 10 fluently in arabic, congratulation! But if you can't, you need to revise them by watching the video below. Nice and interesting :)

Have you finish watch the video? You need to watch first, then you can continue reading the rest of the entry :)

What did you notice from the number's pattern in the video?

Is it like this?

وَاحٍدْ - ١ - One

اثْنَيْن - ٢ - Two

ثَلَاثَة - ٣ - Three

أَرْبَعة - ٤ - Four

خَمْسَة - ٥ - Five

سِتّة - ٦ - Six

سَبْعَة - ٧ - Seven

ثَمَانِيَه - ٨ - Eight

تِسْعَة - ٩ - Nine

عَشْرَة - ١٠ - Ten

Or like this?

1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10

It is great to tell you that the arabic numbers (pattern) that we have learnt since we were kids are not the actual number of arabic. This is the fact.

So,what is the actual number in arabic?

Historically "true" arabic numbers are the ones we use like 1,2,3,4,5 etc. The numbers in use in the arab world are derivations of hindi/indian numbers. The arabic numbers nowadays are originally from hindi. In arabic they are known as ''INDIAN NUMBERS''.

So which one do you prefer and proud to write, arabic numbers or hindi numbers?

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Look at the picture carefully....

Can you distinguish among the arabic numbers?

Just to let you know that:

The first set of numbers are standard arabic. The second set are egyption arabic and the third set are moroccon arabic.

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After this I hope you can pronoun the arabic numbers exactly like the video so you can feel as you are an arab :). Hope you keep repeating the video continuously until you understand all the song's lyric. It shares only simple words :).

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Quick arabic lesson:

number-singular = الرَّقْم
numbers-plural = الأَرْقَام

Ramadhan is coming

2011-07-29T00:12:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all beloved friends.

رمضان كريم وأنتم إلى الله أقرب

تقبل الله الصيام والقيام الجميع بمزيد من الأجر والمغفرة والثواب

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Doa jami' ma'thur دعاء جامع مأثور :

اللهم بَلِّغْنَا رَمَضَان

اللهم اجْعَلْنَا مِن الصَّائِمِين الصَّابِرِين القَائِمِينَ لَكَ القَانِتِين

اللهم جَعَلَ أَعْمَالَنَا مَقْبُولَة وَأَفْعَالَنَا لَكَ مَرْفُوعَة وَدُعَائَنَا مُسْتَجَاب

اللهم إِنِّي أَسْاَلُكَ مِنْ خَيْرِ مَا سَأَلَكَ مِنْهُ نَبِيِّكَ محمد صلى الله عليه

وسلم

وَنَعُوذُ بِكَ مِن شَرِّ مَا اسْتَعَاذَكَ مِنْه نَبِيِّكَ محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم

وَأَنْتَ المُسْتَعَان وَعَلَيْكَ البَلَاغ

وَلَا حَوْلَ وَلَا قُوَّةَ إِلَّا بِالله

Yusuf alaihi assalam

2011-07-19T23:20:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all dear friends.

كيف حالكم؟ أتمنى أن تكونوا على أحسن أحوال

Yusuf alaihi assalam يوسف عليه السلام

Speechless while watching this video. Extremely excellent.

For those who understand arabic, please watch the video, subhanallah the video is amazing and very detail . I have just finished watching the video from part 1 to part 45.

This was the first time in my life i've cried more then 20 times while watching the video, especially at the crucial parts. You need to watch (and understand) so then you can feel (at least) how the prophet Yusuf a.s feels when he was put to the test by Allah.

All i can say about the video is:

قد رأيت هذا المسلسل أكثر من مرة وفي كل مرة أراه تدمع عيناي من شدة تأثيره فيّ. والله لتعجز الكلمات عن النطق وليعجز القلب عن الخفقان لهذا العمل. كم احببت عبودية الله من اظهار قصة النبي يوسف بهذا الشكل، وانها لعبرة زادت ايماني. سلام
الله عليك يا ايها الجميل يوسف بابن يعقوب يا انبياء الله

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Honestly i'm excited with the video because they use standard arabic/ fus-ha in their dialogues and it easy to understand, alhamdulillah. Yea, i admit the beauty of standard arabic. How i get a lot of beautiful phrases through every parts. May Allah reward the team work of this video his Jannah. Hope you enjoy watching them :)

I want her back

2011-06-13T20:58:00.000+08:00

She is monologing:

I miss my old afeefah

I miss being my old self.

I want her back. All i need now is عفيفة صالحة

اللهم اجعلني عفيفة صالحة

I admire her

2011-05-29T10:16:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all dear friends.

Have you ever admired someone and wanted to be just like them?

Yes, i do.

Just want to share with you someone special that i secretly admired since i was a kid.

But now, it's no longer a secret :)

* wanita solehah terpelihara * that's what i want.

The truth, an amazing story behind the song.

One day a very pious and humble man was making Ibadah by a river. He was very hungry, as he had not eaten for three days and three nights. Just then he noticed an apple floating in the river, in his direction. He reached out and took this apple and ate it.

After he had eaten the apple, this pious man whose name was Abu Saaleh, realised that he had ate someone else’s apple for it did not belong to him. He decided to go in search of the owner of this apple. He walked alongside the river for a long time until he reached an orchard that had an apple tree. He immediately knew that the apple had come from this orchard.

Abu Saaleh asked to see the owner. He explained what had happened and asked him for forgiveness for eating his apple without permission. The owner listened and realised that this was a chosen servant of Allah. The owner agreed to forgive Abu Saaleh under one condition – that he must work in the orchard for ten years.

Abu Saaleh agreed to this and after ten years had passed he went to the owner and asked to be excused but the owner asked him to work for another two years. Abu Saaleh agreed to do this without complaint. After two years had passed, the owner had agreed to let Abu Saaleh leave under one final condition – that he must marry his daughter. Abu Saaleh married the owner’s daughter, Fatimah and they bore a son by the name of Sheikh Abdul Qadir Jilani.

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Brothers and sisters in faith,
Nothing in this world is as valuable as a pious woman. Hopefully the pious women will be yours and vice versa, inshallah. Say ameen everyone! :)

Frankly, i realized that i mostly admired beautiful (amazed by the beauty) pious women and kinda jealous of them. Oh, this is just me n_n.

Get started now

2011-05-28T14:39:00.000+08:00

Fav pic~ palestinian children and schooling

“Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful.”

Cool down the anger

2011-05-20T22:06:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all beloved friends.

Let's talk a lil bit about islamic anger management.

How many times were you angry in a day?

( Oh, I really don't, that often anyway alhamdulillah)

How did you deal with your anger and hot temper?

Here short tips for shared, hope this helps :)

Drink a glass of cold water and lay down.

Keep reciting a doa below continuously. (if you could memorize the doa, you're mumtaz n_n)

Our Lord! Pour out on us patience and constancy, and make us die as those who have surrendered themselves unto You. (7:126)

Indeed, Allah s.w.t will send down His calmness and tranquillity upon us, inshallah.

* mumtaz- ممتاز- excellent

When an arab wrote a short MALAY essay

2011-05-08T23:05:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all honorable friends.

كيف حالُكم؟ أَمَل أَنْ تَكُونُوا بِخَيْر

The post is not about arabic, i bet you might get bored if i write everything in arabic n_n. Okay, it's about...............

When i sort folders of mine in laptop, suddenly i found something that attracts my eyes. Oh, it's a short malay essay written by my arab friend.

If i'm not mistaken, last year my friend asked me to correct and check any grammatical error and vocab in the essay. I still remember how i made an evil giggle while reading the essay *oh, isk isk *. But when i read for a second time, i don't feel funny as before. Why??

Wanna know how arab wrote something in malay? I just copy paste the whole essay without doing any editing. Enjoy reading the ma-bic (malay-arabic) essay :)

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Perjalanan Terengganu :

Puan Puan, dan tuan tuan, hadirin dan hadirat, muslimin dan muslimat, assalamualikum w.a.w.

Saya pergi ke negeri Terengganu dengan kawan-kawan bulan jun 2009.

Kami pergi dari kuala lumpur naik bas dari puduraya stesen. Kami tiba negeri terengganu pukul 5 pagi. Kami sembayang dan tidur sikit sebelum jalan jalan di pasaran.

Kawan kami nama Abd Al-Rahman, dia dari Jordan, dia kerja ustaz arab di imtiaz sekolah. Dia tinggal di rumah sewa.

Pertama hari kami pergi ke Taman…, masa petang kami pergi ke terjun …., kami mandi sana dengan kawan-kawan dan buat barbekyu.

Hari kedua kami pergi ke taman tamaddun Islam. Kami lawati masjid-masjid sana. Di taman tamaddun itu ada banyak bangunan untuk masjid masjid di seluruh dunia, macam majid Aqsa, Ka’ba, medina, etc.

Kami main bula, dan tennis di sekolah imtiaz denagan budak-budak sekolah.

Kami hari ketiga pergi pulau Berhantian. Kami tinngal sana dua hari.

Pulau berhantian ialah cantik, kamu jumpa ramai turis antarabangsa di pulau berhantian.

Kami makan banyak makanan di pulau berhantian; contoh nasi goreng ayam, tomyam, tetapi harga makanan di sana mahal sangat sebab itu tempat untuk turis.

Kami balik ke kuala lumpur naik bas.

Kami suka sangat negeri terengganu, saya mahu pergi sana satu kali lagi insyallah.

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Interesting! Hope you don't mind when your assignment is published on blog. I won't display your name because i keep it as secret and confidential :)

Afwan?

2011-05-08T15:12:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all blessed friends.

Have you heard a word of AFWAN?

That word is commonly used by those who learn arabic. They use afwan to express a word of SORRY.

But wait........before you continue using that word, there is something should be clear with the word of AFWAN.

So, for today's entry i'm glad to share with you about AFWAN that many of us kinda wrongly use it (depend on your situation). Read the dialogue below to get the idea:

Muhammad : ahlan, anti Khadija ? اهلا، أنت خديجة - Hi, you're khadija?
Fateema : la, ana Fateema. لا أنا فاطمة - No, i'm Fateema
Muhammad : aasif. ana Muhammad. آسف، أنا محمد - Sorry, i'm Muhammad
Fateema: anta Muhammad ? ahlan ! أنت محمد؟ اهلا - You're Muhammad? Hi!
Muhammad : naam, shukran. نعم، شكرا - Yes, thank you
Fateema: afwan. عفوا - Welcome

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AFWAN in general means "YOU'RE WELCOME" but sometimes means "I'M SORRY" (if you don't hear something).

AASIF means "SORRY" (for a mistake).

If you say AFWAN in egypt they're gonna look at you like, "what did you do for me?".

If you don't understand something or you make a mistake you can just say "asif/asfa".

So, if you mean SORRY, please say AASIF rather than Afwan.

Do you get what i mean??

** Kindly use arabic words correctly :) **

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For a man: أنا آسِف
For a woman: أنا آسِفة

Oh, love time

2011-05-06T22:39:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all beloved friends.

Can i talk about love for awhile?

Love time.

Ouh, don't get me wrong, just wanna share with you some simple lovely words in arabic. I write the phrases in standard arabic (fus-ha). Those words are what a woman said to a man. If you- a man - wanna use it to a woman, just change the ضمير of muzakkar مذكر to muannath مؤنث (can you change it for by yourself??). Anyway, enjoy using them to a right person!

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أُحِبُّك
I love you!

أنا مُتَيَّمَة
I’m in love

أنتَ وَسِيم

You’re handsome

أنتَ تُسْعِدُنِي
You make me happy.

أنتَ حُبُّ حَيَاتِي

You are the love of my life.

أُرِيدُ أَنْ أَكُون مَعَكَ إِلَى الأَبَد
I wanna be with you forever.

اشْتَقْتُ إِلَيْكَ كَثِيرًا

I miss you so much.

هَل تَشْتَاقُ لِي

Do you miss me?

أَنَا دَائِمًا أُفَكِّرُ فِيك

I always think of you.

أُحِبُّكَ أَكْثَر مِنْ أَمْسٍ
I love you more than yesterday

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Ok, these phrases are in ammi and no more translation. Anyone wanna guess the meaning? Just try it! Oh, i add a few words to make it sweeter, it's my pleasure :)

يَا عُيُونِي يَا حُبِّي الوَحِيد يَا أَغْلَى النَّاس

أَنَا بِحِبَّكَ

اشْتَاقُ إِلَيْك

بِدِّي إِيَّاك

مُحْتَاجَاك

بِفِكَّر فِيك طُولَ اليَوْم

يَارِيتكَ هون

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Sharing those lovely words because i know you will learn arabic faster when it's about love. Am i right?

Do you love me? hoho,kidding :)

Sorry for the -eww post- n_n

If you love someone so so much and can't get married to her

2011-04-20T17:17:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all blessed friends.

Just to share a short talk by Khalid Yasin, good advices and awesome so so much :)

Oh Allah, guide them and protect them from misbehaviors so so much!

خطوبة مباركة وزواج ميمون

2011-04-17T19:14:00.001+08:00

She is monologing:

اَللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْنَا خُطُوبَةً مُبَارَكَةً وَزَوَاجًا مَيْمُونًا

أَسْأَلُ الله أَنْ يُسْعِدَنَا وَأَنْ يُتَمِّمَ أُمُرَنَا عَلَى خَيْر وَأَنْ يَجْمَع بَيْنَنَا بِالْخَيْرِ وَالْبَرَكَة

اللهم آمين

* تَحِيَّاتِي لَك وَكُلُّ مَحَبَّتِي وَاشْتِيَاقِي *

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Suddenly i feel so lucky because i can write anything i want in arabic اَلْحَمْدُ لِله عَلَى نِعَمِهِ!

In need of soap than perfume

2011-04-17T14:18:00.001+08:00

Imam Ibn Jauzi رَحِمَهُ الله was once asked:

"Is it better for me to make tasbih (praise Allah) or to make Istighfar (seek forgiveness)?"

He replied:

"The dirty robe is more in need of soap than perfume"

I merely fear

2011-04-16T09:41:00.002+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all honorable friends.

Sobah al-kheir ya jama3ah صَبَاحُ الخَيْر يَا جَمَاعَة
(response: sobah annur ya afeefah صَبَاحُ النُّور يَا عَفِيفَة) - Don't forget to address my name, it's a doa :)

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Storytelling time... Read the story, and inshallah you will get something from it :)

One day Imam Malik entered the Masjid An-Nabawee after Asar and sat down.

Prophet Muhammad SAW had commanded that anyone who enters the Masjid should not sit until he first prays 2 rakaat as a salutation of the Masjid (صلاة تحية المسجد).

Imam Malik was of the opinion however that Prophet Muhammad SAW’s forbiddance of not praying nafil after Asar took precedence and so he would teach his students not to pray the tahiyyatul Masjid if they entered between the Asar and Maghrib time.

At that moment a young boy had seen him sit without first praying the 2 rakaat of Tahiyyatul Masjid. The young boy objected him and said, “Get up and pray 2 rakaat!”

Imam Malik dutifully stood up once again and began praying the 2 rakaat.

The students sat stunned: What was going on? Has Imam Malik’s opinion changed? After he had completed the prayer, the students questioned his actions.

Imam Malik said, “My opinion has not changed. I merely feared that had I not prayed the 2 rakaat as the young boy commanded, Allah may include me with those as mentioned in this verse:

"And when it is said to them, ‘Bow (ruku' in prayer)’, they do not bow." (Al Mursalat 77 :verse 48)

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Oh, subhanallah..subhanallah. The last part is 3ajeeb عَجِيْب ! What a wonderful lesson of taqwa from the life of Imam Malik. It proves of his understanding in islam and the verses of Quran.

May Allah in His grace and mercy guide us in His right path. Allah is the best source of strength.

عَجِيْب = amazing

Learn manners

2011-04-15T18:05:00.001+08:00

Imam Malik bin Anas once told a young boy from Quraish (Imam Shafie):

O nephew, learn manners before you learn knowledge

Yusuf bin al-Hussain said:

Though manners knowledge is understood

Laith bin Saad said:

You are a more need of a little amount of manners then you are in need of great amounts of knowledge

(Al-Nubad fe adab talib al-'ilm, page 8)

Validity of hadith 'Love the arabs for three reasons'

2011-04-15T12:07:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all blessed friends.

May i have your attention, please :)

For today's entry im glad to share with you around the status of hadith of LOVE THE ARABS FOR THREE REASONS. Have you ever heard of the hadith?

أُحِبُّوا العَرَب لِثَلَاثٍ لِأَنِّي عَرَبِي وَالقُرآن عَرَبِي وَلِسَانُ أَهْلِ الجَنَّةِ عَرَبَي

'Love the arabs for three reasons, because i am an arab, the Quran is in arabic and the language of the poeple of paradise is arabic'

Allow me to explain something to you. I have learned this hadith and it status recently in my class, and for your information the validity of this hadith can be questioned.

The is no evidence can be proven to the hadith authentication. The hadith is classed as fabricated. And the cause of fabricated can be specified as prejudice in favour of town or race or a particular imam.

Do you get shocked with this short explanation?

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For us to remember, as a believer of hadith we cannot simply rejecting hadith that have a doubt of fabrication. If there is no proof that such hadith are maudu' (fabricated), they cannot be rejected.

The authenticity of the hadith can be found from the books of Imam Bukhari, Imam Muslim and other four authentic compilations.

وضع يحيى بن بريد بن أبي بردة بن أبي موسى الأشعري (من القرن الثاني حديث): أحبوا العرب لثلاث لأني عربي والقران عربي ولسان أهل الجنة عربي

Fabricated = وَضَعَ

You can refer to the book of Imam Albani سلسلة الأحاديث الضعيفة والموضوعة

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Learn hadith is important. Hadith are important tools to understand quran and other matters.

Random: tag

2011-04-14T15:23:00.002+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh buat pengunjung youmeyaat afeefah yang dikasihi.

Sudah lama rasanya saya tidak mencoretkan sesuatu di dalam blog ini menggunakan bahasa ibunda. Biarpun saya obses dengan bahasa arab tetapi saya menyintai dan menghargai bahasa ibunda saya yang penuh dengan unsur-unsur kehalusan, ketinggian dan keindahan bahasa.

Saya tidak mahu bercakap tentang bahasa pada hari ini, tetapi sekadar mahu menjawab tag yang diberikan oleh melatidaisy. Ianya post yang santai sekadar untuk merehatkan minda. Mungkin kalian akan lebih mengetahui serba sedikit tentang saya melalui tag ini. Tag dalam bahasa melayu, saya hormati untuk menjawabnya dalam bahasa melayu juga :)

(random questions)

Apakah perkara penting dalam hidup anda?

Rahmat,kasih-sayang,pengampunan dan keredhaan Allah jalla jalaluh.

Saya betul-betul akan rasa seperti orang yang tidak berguna sekiranya berterusan maksiat kepada Allah.

Barang terakhir yang dibeli menggunakan duit anda?

Pen biru yang digunakan untuk menjawab peperiksaan akhir semester. Dakwat sebatang pen cukup-cukup untuk menjawab lima kertas peperiksaan.

Dimanakah tempat anda akan langsungkan perkahwinan dan apakah temanya nanti?

Di skudai johor bahru inshallah. Tema? saya rasa lebih baik dirahsiakan agar ia menjadi kejutan untuk kalian.

Adakah anda sedang bercinta sekarang?

(Soalan apakah ini?) Untuk perkara peribadi, saya tidak mahu bercinta, tidak mahu dan tidak mahu lagi bercinta. Tidak ada keperluan untuk bercinta hinggalah selepas berkahwin. Tett.

Berapa lama anda akan mencintai kekasih anda?

Speaking arabic please.. أنا بحبك وأريد أن أكون معك إلى الأبد ، إن شاء الله

Di manakah anda berjumpa kekasih anda?

Di dalam doa. Doa kegemaran saya, kegemaran untuk selamanya. Mungkin.

اللهمَ اجْعَلْنِي عَفِيفَة صَالِحَة وَاجْعَل خَطِيبِي صَالِحًا تَقِيًّا

Apakah novel/buku/majalah yang terakhir dibeli?

Buku cerita dongeng kanak-kanak (versi bahasa arab). Walaupun buku itu tahap tadika,tapi saya peroleh banyak manfaat daripadanya. Cerita tentang haiwan. Kamu semua sudah tahu nama-nama haiwan dalam bahasa arab?

Cuba teka, itik, musang, buaya, harimau, naga, singa dan penguin apa dalam bahasa arab? :) Siapa dapat jawab dengan tepat tanpa tengok kamus next stage please!

Apakah nama penuh anda?

عفيفة صالحة بنت زين العابدين

Saya sangat suka bila orang arab atau mereka yang berlahjahkan arab memanggil saya: ya afeefa, ya afeefa. Rasa begitu syahdu!

Antara ibu dan ayah, siapa yang anda lebih mesra?

Kedua-duanya.

Dengan umi, saya jadi diri saya yang sebenar.

Dengan ayah saya jadi agak merepek (sebab layan ayah saya cakap bahasa utara, dan tiap kali saya cakap utara saya akan gelak,,oh,buruk betul bila dengar saya cakap utara) n_n . Hidup ini akan menjadi lebih bermakna sekiranya kita menjadi diri sendiri dengan berpandukan syara'.

Namakan orang yang anda benar-benar hajatkan untuk berjumpa di dalam hidup anda?

Kekasih Allah, Muhammad salla allhu alaihi wasallam.

Adakah anda membasuh pakaian anda sendiri?

Sudah tentu. Saya mula membasuh pakaian sendiri bermula dari tingkatan satu (sekolah asrama) sampailah sekarang. Oh, habislah telapak tanganku ini. Alah bisa tegal biasa :)

Dimanakah tempat yang anda berhajat sangat untuk pergi?

Haramain (makkah we madinah) dan juga palestin. Jom duduk sana.

Pilih salah satu, peluk atau cium?

Saya mahu pilih dua-dua. Saya tidak mahu meng-anak tirikan samada peluk atau cium n_n. Harus bersikap adil.

Beritahu 3 perkara tentang orang yang memberi tag ini?

1. Dia classmate saya. Baru saja duduk berbincang sekali sebelum masuk dewan peperiksaan pagi tadi.

2. Dia pakai niqab.

3. Kawan yang saya suka tanya: "awak dah siapkan assignment? dah study sampai mana ?" Saya rasa seperti ada gang jika dia tak siapkan lagi assignment dan tak mula study lagi :)

Lima benda yang paling disayangi dalam hidup anda?

1. Hadiah pemberian daripada mereka yang saya kasihi; yang sangat dikasihi kerana Allah.

2. Abaya-abaya saya. Nak tahu rupa abaya tu macam mana,sila klik label abaya disebelah kanan kamu :)

3. Nota STAM dan juga nota-nota saya sekarang ini, ada unsur-unsur sentimental value disitu.

4. Kata-kata yang ikhlas, ucapan yang indah dan manis yang diberikan oleh mereka yang saya kasihi.

5. Saya sayang diri saya, jadi sesiapa yang tidak sayang saya, saya merajuk dengan dia. Boleh ke?

Apakah lagu yang paling anda suka dan selalu dengar?

Saya tak gemar muzik. Jika dengar lebih daripada 15 minit, ia mengganggu saya. Music is annoying me.

Bilakah tarikh lahir anda dan dimanakah anda menyambutnya tahun lepas?

11 JUN di jusco. Saya ada ramai kembar berlainan tahun. Lima orang semuanya.

1. Zaneerah afirin

2. Nailah Abd Kadir

3. Athirah Hanisah

4. Hamzah Omar

dan yang kelima ini istimewa. Kembar nama- Afifah Zaki :). Cuba teka siapa yang dipanggil kak pah dan kak pip? - soalan tidak mencabar langsung..

Lima rakan Blogger yang anda mahu tag

Saya tidak mahu tag sesiapa. Oh, saya telah melanggar peraturan...

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Alhamdulillah, saya sudah selesai menjawab semua kertas peperiksaan. Jadi bahasa yang digunakan di dalam post kali ini adalah bahasa bahagia dan gembira ye. Harap maklum.

How to respond to arabic greetings?

2011-04-12T17:34:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all beloved friends.

I'm now still in mood with arabic language. So let's have fun with arabic language!

For today's entry i'm glad to share with you on how to respond to arabic greeting when somebody greets you. Are you ready to learn? Please set a happy mood with this entry :) Ok, let's start.

If people greet you with a smile like a phrase below, see the way how you should greet them back. It's very easy to learn and to practice as well especially for the beginner learner of arabic language.

Welcome; hello: أَهْلاً وَسَهْلاً
Response: أَهْلاً بِيك

Welcome; hello: مَرْحَبًا
Response: مَرْحَبًا بِيك

Nice to meet you: فُرْصَة سَعِيدَة - lit. Happy chance
Response: أنا الأَسْعَد - lit. I am happier

Good night: تِصْبَحْ عَلَى خَيْر - lit. Wake up healthy
Response: وِانْتَ مِن أَهْلِه

Goodbye: مَعَ السَّلَامَة - lit. Go in peace
Response: الله يُسَلِّمَك - lit. May Allah protect you

Bon voyage: رِحْلَة سَعِيدَة
Response: اللهُ يُسَلِّمَك

Get well soon: سَلَامْتَك or اللهُ يَشْفِيك - lit. May Allah heal you
Response: اللهُ يُسَلِّمَك

Thank you: شُكْرًا
A thousand thanks: أَلْفُ شُكْر
You're welcome: عَفْوًا .Other ways to say العَفُو or العَفُو عَلَى اِيه -lit. It was nothing

Congratulations: مَبْرُوك
A thousand congratulations: أَلْفُ مَبْرُوك
Response: اللهُ يُبَارِك فِيك

How are things going?: اِيه أَخْبَار؟ -lit. What's up?
Response: كُوَيِّس - Good or كُلُّ تَمَام -lit. Everything's fine

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I've a lot of sweet arabic greetings to share with you. But i think it's enough for today to talk about arabic. Inshallah i'll continue for the next post. So stay tuned for arabic lovers :)

I've one request, only one request for my lovely readers........can you fulfill my request?? pleasee

DON'T GET HEADACHES AFTER READ THIS ENTRY :) enjoy learning arabic.

Strengthen me

2011-04-03T23:23:00.000+08:00

She is monologing:

Oh Allah, in this time of need, strengthen me. You are my strength and my shield, you are my refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Almighty God, who gives strength to the weak and upholds those who might fall, give me courage to do what is right to be my source of wisdom in deciding how to act and respond in any given situation.

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اللهم يَا مُسْتَجِيبُ الدُّعَاء بَارِكْ لَنَا فِي أَوْقَاتِنَا وَارْزُقْنَا حُبَّ المُذَاكَرَة وَسُهُولَةَ الإِخْتِبَارَات وَاجْعَل خَاتِمَةَ ذَلِكَ التَّفَوُّق وَالنَّجَاح-آمين

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(Ok, 2 down 3 to go.....), time to get strict with myself. It ain't easy, huk.

Best wishes for exam greeting

2011-03-27T14:39:00.004+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all honorable friends.

My lovely final exam will start tomorrow morning, thus let me share with you some wishes for exam greeting in arabic language..

إلى جَمِيع الإِخْوَة وَالأَخَوَات، دَعْوَاتِي القَلْبِيَّة لَكُم بِالنَّجَاح وَالتَوفِيق

مَعَ تَمَنِّيَاتِي لَكُم بِالتَّوفِيق وَالنَّجَاح

دُعَائِي لَكُم دَوَام التَّوفِيق والنَّجَاح

أَرجُو لَكُم النَّجَاح وَالتَّوفِيق وَالحُصُول عَلَى أَعْلَى دَرَجَاتِ وَأَنْ تَمُرَّ الاختِبَارَات عَلَى خَيْر

أَسْأَلُ الله التَّوفِيقَ وَالسَّداد لِلْجَمِيع

بِالتَّوفِيق وَالنَّجَاح المُتَمَيِّز إِنْ شَاءَ الله

The overall meaning is WISHING YOU LUCK AND SUCCESS

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By now, time for using a wish in arabic language, choose one of them and send it to your friends :). Remember me in your prayer-i need your doa :).

Arabic proverb

2011-03-19T12:33:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all beloved friends.

Time for arabic corner!

For today's entry i am glad to share with you a useful link to learn arabic language in an easy way. I am so lucky to find a website who shares arabic quotes and proverbs. So blessed.

For those who love to learn arabic language, kindly click here to get more.

I encourage you to drop by the link, it is interesting to visit :)

Distinguish between fushah and ammi phrases

2011-03-15T12:31:00.004+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all blessed friends.

It has been quite a long time since i don't share about arabic language in youmeyaat afeefah, and today i wanna share it with you. If you are eager to learn arabic language, read them carefully, so then you can distinguish between fushah and ammi phrases.

And the phrases are simple and easy to understand-believe me :).

The right side is fushah (arabic standard), the left side is ammi (arabic dialect)

اِجْتَهِدْ فِي عَمَلِك- اِعْمَل جُهْدَك

Do your best

كَيفَ صِحَّتُكَ- كِيفْ صِحْتَكْ

How are you

لَمْ أَرَكَ مُنذُ فَتْرَةٍ- مِنْ زَمَان مَا شُوفْتَكْ

i didn't see you for a long time

إلى أَيْنَ تَذْهَب- وِينْ رَايِح

where are you going

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سَامِحْنِي عَلَى الغِيَاب بِسَبَبِ الدِّرَاسَة وَإِذَا طَوَّلْتُ الغِيَاب اُدْعُولِي

بِالنَّجَاح، دُمْتُ بِوُد

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Even though i love to learn ammi dialect, but i put my first priority on arabic language-fushah. Ok, it's enough for today to talk about arabic language. By the way, these sentences are not the translation of the phrase above, you can find the meaning by yourself- a home work for you :).

That's Allah

2011-03-05T21:07:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all honorable friends.

Have you ever been down and out and nobody seem to be around for you to talk to..

That's Allah...he wants you to talk to him

Have you ever been just sitting there and all of a sudden you feel like doing nice for someone you care for..

That's Allah...he talks to you

Have you ever thinking about somebody that you haven't seen in a long time an then next thing you know you see them or receive a phone call from them..

That's Allah...there is no such thing as 'coincidence'

Have you ever received something wonderful that you didn't even ask for..

That's Allah...he knows the desires of your heart

Have you ever been in a situation and you had no clue how it is going to get better, but now you look back on it..

That's Allah...he passes us though tribulation to see a brighter day

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In all that we do, we should totally give Allah thanks

and our prayers blessings will continue to multiply..

Abaya chic

2011-02-26T12:19:00.003+08:00

Abaya again....

Time for shopping. Abaya has always been my passion, so let me me share with you new gorgeous and chic abayat i bought a couple weeks ago.

reduction price. Worth to buy.

special offer for regular customer

I have been spending hundreds of ringgit on abayat. And now, i am thinking to have my own online abaya business. Why not? May my dream comes true, inshallah :).

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A woman modestly dressed is as a pearl in its shell.

Al-mauled An-nabawi As-syareef

2011-02-16T14:36:00.002+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all blessed friends.

For today's entry i am glad to share with you the term of 'Maulidur rasul' that we usually use for celebrating the prophet's saw birthday in arabic language.

Can you guess what is the term??

The arabs use the term of المَولِد النَّبَوِي الشَّرِيف

كل عام وأنتم بخير بمناسبة المولد النبوي الشريف

So after this, you can simply use either maulidur rasul or al-mauled an-nabawi as-syareef in your greeting :).

You'll find Allah with you

2011-02-10T20:59:00.002+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all honorable friends.

Again, time for arabic corner!

كُنْ مَعَ الله *** تَرَ اللهَ مَعَك

Be with Allah, you will find Allah with you

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Be with Allah by loving Him, turning to Him in all your affairs, by obeying his commands out of love, you will find Allah with you.

He does not let the efforts of those who seek Him go to waste.

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Good deeds / Hasanaat

2011-02-07T22:46:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all beloved friends.

Time for arabic corner!

سَيِّئَاتُكَ بَدِّلَهَا حَسَنَات

Your misdeeds, shift it into good deeds

Your misdeeds = سَيِّئَاتُك

Shift it into = بَدِّلَهَا

Good deeds = حَسَنَات

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it ain't easy.

Success principle ii

2011-02-03T14:14:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all blessed friends.

For today's entry, i am glad to share with you an inspirational story. The story of the seed.

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A successful business man was growing old and knew it was time to choose a successor to take over the business. Instead of choosing one of his Directors or his children, he decided to do something different. He called all the young executives in his company together.

He said, 'It is time for me to step down and choose the next CEO. I have decided to choose one of you. 'The young executives were shocked, but the boss continued. 'I am going to give each one of you a SEED today - one very special SEED. I want you to plant the seed, water it, and come back here one year from today with what you have grown from the seed I have given you. I will then judge the plants that you bring, and the one I choose will be the next CEO.'

One man, named Jim, was there that day and he, like the others, received a seed. He went home and excitedly, told his wife the story. She helped him get a pot, soil and compost and he planted the seed. Everyday, he would water it and watch to see if it had grown. After about three weeks, some of the other executives began to talk about their seeds and the plants that were beginning to grow. Jim kept checking his seed, but nothing ever grew.

Three weeks, four weeks, five weeks went by, still nothing.

By now, others were talking about their plants, but Jim didn't have a plant and he felt like a failure. Six months went by -- still nothing in Jim's pot. He just knew he had killed his seed. Everyone else had trees and tall plants, but he had nothing. Jim didn't say anything to his colleagues, however. He just kept watering and fertilizing the soil - He so wanted the seed to grow.

A year finally went by and all the young executives of the company brought their plants to the CEO for inspection. Jim told his wife that he wasn't going to take an empty pot...

But she asked him to be honest about what happened. Jim felt sick to his stomach, it was going to be the most embarrassing moment of his life, but he knew his wife was right. He took his empty pot to the boardroom. When Jim arrived, he was amazed at the variety of plants grown by the other executives. They were beautiful -- in all shapes and sizes. Jim put his empty pot on the floor and many of his colleagues laughed, a few felt sorry for him!

When the CEO arrived, he surveyed the room and greeted his young executives.

Jim just tried to hide in the back. 'My, what great plants, trees, and flowers you have grown,' said the CEO. 'Today one of you will be appointed the next CEO!'

All of a sudden, the CEO spotted Jim at the back of the room with his empty pot. He ordered the Financial Director to bring him to the front. Jim was terrified. He thought, 'The CEO knows I'm a failure! Maybe he will have me fired!'

When Jim got to the front, the CEO asked him what had happened to his seed - Jim told him the story. The CEO asked everyone to sit down except Jim. He looked at Jim, and then announced to the young executives, 'Behold your next Chief Executive Officer!

His name is Jim!' Jim couldn't believe it. Jim couldn't even grow his seed.

'How could he be the new CEO?' the others said.

Then the CEO said, 'One year ago today, I gave everyone in this room a seed. I told you to take the seed, plant it, water it, and bring it back to me today. But I gave you all boiled seeds; they were dead - it was not possible for them to grow.

All of you, except Jim, have brought me trees and plants and flowers. When you found that the seed would not grow, you substituted another seed for the one I gave you. Jim was the only one with the courage and honesty to bring me a pot with my seed in it. Therefore, he is the one who will be the new Chief Executive Officer!'

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I like the story because it talks about integrity. No doubt, i choose this story to be as my assignment for translation's subject. This is just a part of story need to be translated into arabic language.. Cool, time to test my ability.

Translation:
arabic language into malay language = easy
english language into arabic lanuage = average
arabic language into english language = hard (need to master in both languages especially english language)

Are you interested in translating this story with me? jom :).

Allah's forgiveness

2011-01-31T23:02:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all beloved friends.

The prophet salla allahu alaihi waasallam said:

"Allah the Almighty has said: O son of Adam, as long as you call upon me and put your hope in Me, I have forgiven you for what you have done and i do not mind.

O son of Adam, if your sins were to reach the clouds of the sky and then you would seek My forgiveness, I would forgive you.

O son of Adam, if you were to come to Me with sins that are close to filling the earth and then you would meet Me without ascribing any partners with Me, I would certainly bring to you forgiveness close to filling it. "

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Allah's blessing are uncountable.

Tawadhu'

2011-01-05T20:15:00.002+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all honorable friends.

Behaving modestly at all times. Humility is a characteristic that Allah gives to those whom he loves. By knowing about Allah, his names and his greatness, it may develop the attitude of humility.

It is not allowed for muslim to feel superior towards others and be arrogant except for non believers and sinners and to the proud ones. And here, an example of tawadhu' shown by Imam As-Syafie rahimahullah alaih to his opponent:

We ask Allah to make us among those who humble themselves before his might.

عام جديد سعيد

2011-01-01T02:13:00.004+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all blessed friends.

سَنَة جَدِيدَة سَعِيدَة عَلَيكُم جَمِيعًا

كُلُّ عَامٍ وَأَنتُم بِأَلفِ خَيرٍ وَصِحَّةٍ وَسَعَادَة

إِن شَاءَ الله أَن تَكُون سَنَة 2011 أَفضَل لِلجَمِيع

الله يُسعِدُ قَلبَنَا وَحَيَاتَنَا وَأَيَّامَنَا

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سنة جديدة سعيدة = happy new year

You look so beautiful with hijab

2010-12-11T22:15:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all beloved friends.

"One day, there were two hijabi girls walking down the street. All of the sudden, one of them was laughing and giggling loudly. The people around them kept staring at the girls, and wondering something".

Here is a scenario i always see here and there. I feel ashamed on that to be honest, not because they are girls but they are hijabi girls.

Do you think, hijab is only a hijab?

Wait a minute. There are things should be clear about hijab:

♥ Hijab is a part of the Islamic way of life, hijab is an attitude, a way of thinking and behaving.

♥ Hijab is not only wearing a scarf on head, it also means to cover the aurah.

♥ Not only hijab of body but hijab of talking, hijab of laughing, hijab of perfuming, hijab of secrecy and hijab of etc that we ought to adopt.

So my dear sisters in islam, you look so beautiful with that kind of hijab :).

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My Hijab is my covenant with Allah, it is my identity and wearing hijab is not an option. We wear hijab to please Allah and no-one else.

Don't be hurt

2010-12-07T22:13:00.001+08:00

She is monologing:

A drop of tears rolling down my cheek,

Don't be hurt,

It only takes a few seconds to hurt me,

But it takes years to heal.

every time that i was down

you would always come around

and get my feet back on the ground

thanks.

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Only by uttering a name, it changes my ice cold heart. Friends, i just wanna let you know, don't ever mentioned the name in front of me. thanks for your understanding.

It's very hurt.

Stop dropping your tears ya afeefah.

-got the blues mode-

Why the sadness is created?

The wish for 1432 hijrah

2010-12-07T00:35:00.006+08:00

She is monologing:

A new year is coming. Time to open a new diary by storing all the memories and closing the old one.

One thing to be pondered, how long i wanna bring the huge mountain of sin for the rest of my life?

Live with a new life, new ibadah, new iman and live life to the fullest.

I ask Allah to realize my wish, my dream and my hope. May it comes true, bi iznillah:

اللّهُمَّ اجْعَلْنِي عَفِيفَة صَالِحَة

وَاجْعَل خَطِيبِي صَالِح طَيِّب

وعفّ بَنَاتِ المُسلِمين وَشَبَابَهُم

وَجَنِّبْنَا السُّوء

إِنّك نِعمَ المَولَى وَنِعمَ النَّصِير

اللهم آمين

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Afeefah loves to be solehah ♥

Beautiful thoughts

2010-12-06T19:04:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all blessed friends.

When youmeyaat afeefah talks about beautiful thought.

No one will manufacture a lock without a key

Similarly God won't give problem without solutions

Life laughs at you when you are unhappy

Life smiles at you when you are happy

Life salutes you when you make others happy

No one can go back and change a bad beginning

But anyone can start now and create a successful ending

If a problem can be solved, no need to worry about it

If a problem cannot be solved what is the use of worrying?

If you miss an opportunity, don't fill the eyes with tears

It will hide another better opportunity in front of you

"Changing the face" can change nothing, but "facing the change" can change everything

Don't complain about others, change yourself if you want peace

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Tomorrow is awal muharramm, the start of muslim year. Lets renew our wishes, hopes and dreams :)

NOT salam alaikum BUT assalamualaikum

2010-11-28T22:58:00.002+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all beloved friends.

spread the greeting of peace

For today's entry, i am glad to share with you something that we always say in our daily. It is about SALAM that some of us wrongly use it. Oh, firstly don't forget to reply my salam :)

Basically, Salam is a greeting that people give to other to create a sense of love between muslim, generally by saying assalamualaikum.

But, some of us vary this greeting by saying salam alaikum. The way people should greet others that prophet s.a.w teach us is either by saying :

- Assalamualaikum
or
- Salamun alaikum (there is difference between salamun and salam)

For your information, there are arguments among ulama' about the preference of using between both of the greetings. But clearly they are used in alquran and hadith.

So, there is no salam alaikum but salamun alaikum or asaalamualaikum.

We just need to add AS on SALAM to make the greeting correct :). Very simple right?

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For your reference:

( وَالْمَلائِكَةُ يَدْخُلُونَ عَلَيْهِمْ مِنْ كُلِّ بَابٍ سَلامٌ عَلَيْكُمْ بِمَا صَبَرْتُمْ فَنِعْمَ عُقْبَى الدَّارِ) الرعد/23، 24 )

وقال النووي في "الأذكار )

" اعلم أن الأفضل أن يقول المُسَلِّم : السَّلامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ ، فيأتي بضمير الجمع وإن كان المسلَّم عليه واحداً ، ويقولُ المجيب : وَعَلَيْكُمُ السَّلامُ وَرَحْمَةُ اللَّهِ وَبَركاتُه

Make them statisfied

2010-11-25T19:46:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to honorable friends.

Just a short post about albayt al-islamiy between islam and parents. A very good lecture you must watch. It comes with english subtitles.

May Allah grant my mother and my father aljannah. amin.

Don't say jazakallah

2010-11-12T15:45:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all blessed friends.

For today's entry, let me share with you something related with arabic greeting that some of us overlooked in using it.

When did we use the phrase of JAZAKALLAHU KHAIRAN جَزَاكَ اللهُ خَيْرًا ?

This is a statement of thanks and appreciation to be said to person who does a favor. Instead of saying SHUKRAN (thanks), this phrase is used.

Is there any difference between the phrase of jazakallah and jazakallahu khairan?

Believe it or not, by saying jazakallah solely it can be categorized as an incomplete phrase.

So let us complete the phrase by saying JAZAKALLAHU KHAIRAN because....

-JAZAKALLAH means 'may allah reward you'. Thus, Allah can reward with something good or bad.
-KHAIRAN means 'good'.

So by uttering jazakallahu khairan, the meaning is being complete. It means 'may Allah reward you with good '

If you heard the phrase is said to you, you can reply:
WA IYYA KUM وَإِيَّاكُم means 'and to you too'.

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Remember my dear friends, don't just say jazakallah but please complete the phrase by saying jazakallahu khairan :).

جَزَاكُم اللهُ خَيْرَ الجَزَاءِ عَلَى مُرُورِكُم الرَّائِع الذِّي عَطَرَ صَفْحَتِي وَتَفَاعُلِكُم الحُلُو

Sister, you're beautiful

2010-10-29T14:42:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all beloved friends.

"Sister, you're beautiful".

Lets talk about beauty for awhile.

For today's entry, i just wanna share with you tips for you sisters to stay attractive and beautiful for the rest of your life inshallah (some tips can be practiced for brothers as well).

1. To beautify your eyes, lower your gaze towards strange men. This will make you eyes pure and shiny.

2. To have attractive lips, speak with kindness towards others and speak only the truth and essential matters.

3. To have blushy cheeks, keep your haya' (modesty and shyness).

4. To look fresh and radiant, always smile and be cheerful to others.

5. To remove impurities from your face and body, make a lot of istighfar and always take wudu' whenever you break it. Inshallah it will clear you from your past sins.

6. To have beautiful hair and skin, guard it from the sight of strange men by covering it up.

7. As for jewelry, beautify your hands with humbleness and don't hesitate to lend a helping hand to those in need.

8. As for diet, share your food with others.

9. To have healthy mind and body, constantly pray to allah and remember him and be quick to forgive people who hurt your feeling.

10. Be patient when enduring calamities and thank Allah because the reward for patience is abundance.

My dear valued sisters in islam, do enjoy following all those tips to get real beauty in the inside and outside :).

My life is for you

2010-10-24T17:49:00.009+08:00

She is monologing:

حَياتِى فِدَاك

7ayate fidak
my life is for you

تَخْلَص حَياتِى فِدَاكَ وَلاَ يَوْم تَرُوح مِنِّى

te5las 7yate fidak wala youm troo7 minee
my life will finish for you, dont leave me even for a day

دَه اَنت اَغْلَى مِن حَيَاتِى

da enta a3'la min 7ayate
you are more precious than my life

Thanks Allah for choosing me to feel the blessing of islam.

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Simple notes for readers, under the arabic scripts were written the way the words should be pronounced.

7= ح
5= خ
3= ع
2= ء

Some of arabic slang change the pronunciation of letter ق to أ .

Ok, it's enough for today to talk about arabic language :).

Acknowledgement

2010-10-23T17:02:00.002+08:00

She is monologing:

فِيهِ نَاسُ كَتِير مابِيحِسُوش بِقِيمَةِ اللِّى مَعَاهُم وَفِي أَيدِهِم إِلَّا لَمَّا يَرُوح وَمَايَرجَعلُوش

Many people don't feel the value of people around them and who's with them, unless when they have gone and never come back to them.

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All highlighted words are ammi and they are used in the arabic ammi style. For the time being, i really enjoy learning ammi :).

Take your eyes off me

2010-10-21T12:35:00.004+08:00

She is monologing:

شِيل عُيُونَك عَنِّي

Take your eyes off me.

مُمكِن؟

Dream of the prophet Muhammad s.a.w

2010-10-16T21:54:00.000+08:00

Assalamamualaikum warakmatullahi wabarakatuh to all blessed friends.

For today's entry i'm glad to share with you a lecture by Syeikh Muhammad Hassan on "how to see the prophet Muhammad salla allahu alaihi wasallam in your dream". It's comes with english subtitles.

Subhanallah
Subhanallah
Subhanallah, an amazing true story.

Dreaming of the prophet Muhammad s.a.w is everyone's wish.
Oh, if i dream the prophet Muhammad s.a.w... i dont want to live in the world anymore.

Satin abaya

2010-10-09T12:53:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all dear friends.

When youmeyaat afeefah talks about abaya.

Fabric: satin

Girls, i love this abaya. Simple opened-front abaya decorated with beautiful sleeves. Visit here if you wanna buy abayat at affordable price.

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I am thinking when will i stop loving abaya. Possible or impossible?

Grammatical error

2010-10-08T19:01:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

I saw an advertisement who has been corrected. Cool.

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My love for arabic language grows and grows with each passing day :)

Judge your deeds

2010-10-08T00:41:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all blessed friends.

...When the entertainment, busyness, tiredness and un-islamic environment control muslim life, one precious thing may disappear.

Ruh al-islam.

Where is ruh al-islam ya shabab??

حاسبوا أنفسكم قبل أن تحاسبوا وزنوا أنفسكم قبل أن توزنوا

Judge your deeds before they are judged and weigh your deeds before they are weighed- Umar Alkhattab r.a

Ma-cha Allah

2010-10-02T12:09:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all dear friends.

When youmeyaat afeefah talks about arabic phrases.

Masha allah-Ma cha allah. Do we use the phrase in the correct way? I've heard this phrase being used in the most absolutely wrong places. Let us check.

"I saw an accident, Masha Allah!"
"That muslim is behaving badly, Masha Allah!"

If you think these sentences are right, you are wrong.

MASHA ALLAH literally means "Whatever Allah wills".

Masha Allah is normally used on occasions where there is surprise in someones' good deeds or achievements or in praise of Allah's gifts. For example:

When you see a beautiful baby
"Masha allah, What a lovely baby!".

When your sister gets accepted into University
"Masha allah, That is great news! Congratulations!"

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Masha allah, i saw a gorgeous kid yesterday at masjid!

Do you get it? so, please use the phrases correctly.

Spot the ammi words

2010-09-22T18:53:00.014+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all friends.

While i search the information for my assignments, i found these sentences.

Can you spot the ammi words? Just try it.

جملة انشائية وجملة خبرية؟!!شو يعني ياريت حد يفهمني ..

أهلين حبيبتي..تسلميلي فرحتيني وئت ئلتي فهمتي..وبتمنى هوي يكون فهم علي

شو هاد ؟؟؟؟؟؟

Ana ma'darsh oul'lak :).

Asmaa Allah by Sami Yusuf

2010-09-17T17:21:00.004+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all blessed friends.

When youmeyaat afeefah talks about an awesome nasheed...

For nasyeed's fan, don't doubt to turn on your speaker coz this is the time to nasheed asmaa Allah on this blog by following the lyric provided. Kindly please listen carefully to the every arabic words in the nasheed and pronounce it correctly :).

You will get reward from Allah swt every time you send salutations upon prophet salla allahu alaihi wasallam. inshallah.

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Raheem, Kareemun, ‘Azeem, ‘Aleemun, Haleem, Hakeemun, Mateen
(Merciful, Generous, Incomparably Great, All-Knowing Forbearing, Wise, Firm)

Mannaan, Rahmaanun, Fattaah, Ghaffaarun, Tawwaab, Razzaaqun, Shaheed
(Bestower of blessings, Most Compassionate, Opener, Forgiver Accepter of Repentance, Provider, Witness)

Allahumma salli ‘ala Muhammad, wa aali Muhammad

(O my Lord send salutations upon Muhammad And upon the Family of Muhammad)
Ya Muslimeen sallu ‘alayh
(O Muslims, send salutations upon him)

Allahumma salli ‘ala Muhammad, wa sahbi Muhammad

(O my Lord send salutations upon Muhammad And upon the Companions of Muhammad

Ya Mu’mineen sallu ‘alayh
(O believers, send salutations upon him)

Lateef, Khabeerun, Samee’, Baseerun, Jaleel, Raqeebun, Mujeeb
(Gentle, All-Aware, All-Hearing, All-Seeing, Majestic, Watchful, Responsive)

Ghafur, Shakourun, Wadud, Qayyumun, Ra’uf, Saburun, Majeed
(Forgiving, Appreciative, Loving, Self-Existing by Whom all subsist Most Kind, Patient, Most Glorious)

Allahumma salli ‘ala Muhammad, wa aali Muhammad

(O my Lord send salutations upon Muhammad And upon the Family of Muhammad)
Ya Muslimeen sallu ‘alayh
(O Muslims, send salutations upon him)

Allahumma salli ‘ala Muhammad, wa sahbi Muhammad

(O my Lord send salutations upon Muhammad And upon the Companions of Muhammad

Ya Mu’mineen sallu ‘alayh
(O believers, send salutations upon him)

Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, La Ilaaha Illahu, Al Malikul Quddoos
(God is Greater, God is Greater There is no god but Him, the King, the Most Holy)

Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, Ya Rahmanu irham dha’fana
(O Most Compassionate! Have compassion on our weakness)

Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, Ya Ghaffaaru ighfir zunubana
(O Forgiver! Forgive our sins)

Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, Ya Sattaaru ostour ‘ouyoubana
(O Concealer! Conceal our defects)

Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, Ya Mu’izzu a’izza ummatana
(O Bestower of honour! Bestow honour on our Ummah)

Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, Ya Mujeebu ajib du’aa’ana
(O Responsive One! Answer our prayers)

Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar, Ya Lateefu oltof binaa (x3)
(O Gentle One! Show gentleness to us)

Oltof binaa
(Show gentleness to us)

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I love this nasheed so much :). Okey, you may turn off your speaker.

اللهم صل على محمد و على اله وصحبه أجمعين

3 Abdul yang diberkati

2010-09-14T23:16:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all friends.

For today's entry, i am glad to share with you something related with a nickname. It might be a new thing for some of you.

What are you thinking when you heard about 3 Abdul?
I guess most of you are thinking about P Ramlee film. Its about Abdul Wahab, Abdul Wahib and Abdul Wahub.

Have you ever think other than those?

Believe it or not, 3 Abdul was the nickname of 3 companions of prophet salla allahu alaihi wasallam. No kidding and this is the truth.

Wanna know them?

-Abdullah ibn Umar al khattab r.a

-Abdullah ibn Zubair r.a

-Abdullah ibn Abbas r.a

Some people claim that there were not 3 Abdul of companions but 4, including Abdullah ibn Masud.

The term of that nickname in arabic language is

العَبَادِلَة الثَّلاَثَة

So after this, you can honestly say that you know other than 3 abdul of p ramlee :).

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(actually i got the idea to make this post when i saw my grandpa enjoy watching 3 Abdul on 4th eid. orang melayu klasik ye datuk saya ni )

Have you start fasting for 6 days fast of syawal?

عيدكم مبارك

2010-09-09T14:23:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

Sending warm wishes across the miles to dear friends, readers and visitors of youmeyaat afeefah, just to say...

أتمنى لكم عيدا سعيدا

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وكل سنة وأنتم طيبين

تقبل الله منا ومنكم

MAY ALLAH ACCEPT THE GOOD DEEDS FROM ME AND YOU

Best regards,
Afeefah sza.

Etiquette of Female Speaking

2010-09-08T12:40:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all friends.

This entry is especially for the lady who want to be better muslimah. Enjoy read the etiquette of female speaking with the opposite gender by Sheikh Muhammad Salih Al-Munajjid.

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In brief, what the scholars have said about women voices is that they are not Awrah in and of themselves, and there is nothing wrong with listening to them when there is a need to do so, so they do not forbid listening to them, but certain conditions apply, as follows:

The woman should speak without elongating the words, making her voice soft, or raising her voice. It is Haram for a man to listen with enjoyment, for fear of Fitnah (temptation). The decisive factor for knowing what is Haram in the matter of womens speaking is what is included in the ayah (interpretation of the meaning):

"O wives of the Prophet! You are not like any other women. If you keep your duty (to Allah), then be not soft in speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease (of hypocrisy, or evil desire for adultery, etc.) should be moved with desire, but speak in an honorable manner. " [Noble Quran 33:32]

What is forbidden is being too soft in speech. It is obligatory for women to speak in an honorable manner, which means, that they should not make their voices soft when addressing men.

In conclusion, what is required of the Muslim woman when she speaks to a non-Mahram man is that she should adhere to what is mentioned in this Ayah.

1) She should refrain from what is forbidden and should fulfill her duties.

2) She should speak only when necessary, and only about matters that are permissible and honorable, not evil.

3) Between a woman and a non-Mahram man there should be no intonation, gestures, chat, joking, flirting or playful talk, so that there will be no room for provocation of desires and doubts.

4) Women are not prevented from talking to non-Mahram men when it is necessary to do so, such as dealing directly with them when buying things or conducting any other financial transaction, because in such cases it is necessary for both parties to speak.

5) A woman may also ask a scholar about some legal Islamic matter, or a man may ask a woman such questions, as is proven in various texts of the Quran and Sunnah.

Within the guidelines described above, there is nothing wrong with a woman speaking to a non-Mahram man.

And Allah knows best.

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Time to change dear ladies :).

Butterfly abaya

2010-09-07T13:30:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all beloved friends.

Ouh, gorgeous!

wanna wear this for eid?

I want this dazzling abaya. The cutting is baggy yet chic.

What to do in last 10 days of ramadhan?

2010-08-29T13:22:00.004+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all blessed friends.

Regarding to the title of the entry, i am glad to share with you on three major practices of the prophet Muhammad salla Allahu alaihi wasallam and his companions during these days.

Enjoy spending several minutes of your time to read every single words in the rest of the entry :).

1. Praying in the last 10 nights of ramadhan.

Aishah r.a reported: during the last ten days of ramadhan, the prophet salla allahu alaihi wasallam would wake his wife up during the night to pray and then remain apart form her.

A narration in Muslim state: he would strive to do acts of worship during the last ten days of ramadhan more than he would at any other time.

2. Performing i'tikaf in the mosque.

Abu Hurairah said: the prophet salla allahu alaihi wasallam used to perform i'tikaf for ten days every ramadhan, then it was the year in which he was taken (died), he performed i'tikaf for twenty days.

3. Seeking Lailatul -Al Qadr

The prophet pbuh said: The blessed month has come to you. God has made fasting during it obligatory upon you. During it the gates of paradise are opened and the gates of hellfire are locked and the devils are chained. There is a night which is better than a thousand months. Whoever is deprived of its god is really deprived of something great.

What happens to the person who witnesses lailatul AL-Qard? and what should one do?

Aishah r.a reported: O prophet, what if i knew which night lailatul qadr was, then what should i say in it? say-

اللهُّمَ إِنَّكَ عَفُوّ تُحِبُّ العَفوَ فَاعفُ عَنّي

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Together we pray to Allah All Mighty Most Merciful to bless us this ramadhan by witnessing laylatul -Qadr

كل عام وأنتم إلى الله أقرب

Manage to finish your Quran recitation?

2010-08-15T17:44:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to dear friends.

When youmeyaat afeefah talks about alquran recitation in ramadhan...

Here i share with you tables, that can help you to plan to finish your alquran recitation in ramadhan.

*Kindly click the pictures to enlarge :).

بعد الفجر-after subuh
بعد الظهر-after zohor
بعد العصر-after asar
بعد المغرب-after maghrib
قيام الليل-qiamullail

Only 3 days you need to finish the Quran recitation

Finish the Quran recitation within 5 days

10 days to finish it

On 15th day of ramadhan, you have finished the Quran recitation. Inshallah.

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Friends,

Time to perform our ibadah in the best way,

Because we do not know do we live for the next ramadhan or not..

كل عام وأنتم بألف خير

credit pictures to here

Say; Allahu Akram

2010-08-09T11:01:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikm warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all friends.

For today's entry, i am glad to share with you one thing related to ramadhan greeting.

When somebody greets you ramadhan kareem رمضان كريم,
reply it by saying Allahu Akram الله أكرم .

Do you know why? Because Kareem means generous and Akram means most generous. If ramadhan is generous, Allah is most generous than ramadhan.

Ramadhan Kareem friends.

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Two days left for رمضان المبارك

God tells you...

2010-08-06T21:21:00.004+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to dear friends..

When youmeyaat afeefah talks about inspirational quotes...

May this entry brighten up your day, inshallah.

Friends, we just need to adopt the islamic path in our life.

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4 days left for our beloved ramadhan. Do we well-prepared?

alas, i meet a wrong person

2010-07-17T19:54:00.004+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all dear friends.

I couldn't believe in what i had face in this very beginning of first week of a new semester. There are lots of problems and troublesome in my life lately, and alhamdulillah some of them have been solved. Not really problem i thought.

How can i describe all these things? and one of them is....

Yesterday, when i was walking to a program of journalism club, i was followed by a crazy student. Man, this guy was really made me feel uncomfortable and unsafe. The guy tried to make a conversation with me. I ignored all his words and alhamdulillah the troublesome that i face since yesterday morning enable me to make a worst expression of my face to express at him. But it did not prevents him from following me.

A very unmoral stalker yet scary that i found. If he disturbs me in the morning i'm not scary (yeke?), but it was happend at night. Can you feel what i feel sisters? Oh, listening to his voice really made me feel sooo scary.

Unfortunately this crazy man remains disturbing me until i stopped and stand staring at him. I'm quite brave huh? hee. Btw, he looks at me waiting to see what will i do at him. Do you know what had i done at last?

I shout at him as louder as i can.That was the only thing i can did coz i feel threatened. And this guy was laughing. He thought i was making a joke with him maybe. Seriously, he is crazy plus baldheaded man. This was the first time ever in my life i shout at man and strangers except to my brothers when they were bothering me when i was child. uh.
Is iium is not safe anymore?

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I also meet a guy that harsh in using words toward me. (!_!)
I also meet hypocrite friends.
All was happend in this week.
Alas, i meet the wrong people.
But I believe it must be a lot of hikmah though it.

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Stop talking about people and life. Ok then, the important thing to think is ramadhan is just around the corner. Are we well prepared to meet dearest ramadhan?

Success Principles

2010-07-16T17:57:00.004+08:00

Assalamualaikum and a very good friday to all friends.

I'm glad to share with readers and friends a motivational story of a young boy. May we learn something from it.

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This is the story of Robby

He was a young boy who lived with his elderly mother. His mother wanted him to learn how to play the piano because she longed to hear her son play for her. She sent her son to a piano teacher who took Robby in under her guidance.

However, there was one small problem because Robby was not musically inclined and therefore was very slow in learning.

The teacher did not have much faith in the boy because of his weakness. The mother was very enthusiastic and every week she would send Robby to the teacher .

One day Robby stopped attending the piano lessons. The teacher thought that he had given up and in fact she was quite pleased since she did not givem uch hope to Robby. Not long after, the piano teacher was given the task to organize a piano concert in town. She sent out circulars to invite the students and public to attend the event.

Suddenly, she received a call from Robby who offered to take part in the concert. The teacher told Robby that he was not good enough and that he was no longer a student since he had stopped coming for lessons. Robby begged her to give him a chance and promised that he would not let her down.

Finally, she gave in and she put him to play last, hoping that he will change his mind at the last minute. When the big day came, the hall was packed and the children gave their best performance. Finally, it was Robby's turn to play and as his name was announced, he walked in. He was not in proper attire and his hair was not properly groomed.

The teacher was really nervous since Robby's performance could spoil the whole evening's brilliant performance.

As Robby started playing the crowd became silent and was amazed at the skill of this little boy. In fact, he gave the best performance of the evening. At the end of his presentation the crowd and the piano teacher gave him a standing ovation. The crowd asked Robby how he managed to play so brilliantly.

With a microphone in front of him, he said, "I was not able to attend the weekly piano lessons as there was no one to send me because my other was sick with cancer. She just passed away this morning and I wanted her to hear me play. You see, this is the first time she is able to hear me play because when she was alive she was deaf and now I know she is listening to me. I have to play my best for her!"

SUCCESS PRINCIPLES

This is indeed a touching story of love and excellence. When you have a
Passion and a reason to do something, you will surely excel. You may not be
Talented or gifted but if you have a strong enough reason to do something,
You will be able to tap into your inner God given potential.

MOTIVATIONAL QUOTE

" Find the good. It's all around you. Find it, showcase it and you'll start
Believing in it."

Blogger award

2010-07-07T17:28:00.002+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all friends.

Just a short entry for today. I got award from melatidaisy. Thank you to my dear friend for the award. Melatidaisy, i thought you don't mind if i reveal a lil bit about you :). Btw, she is my classmate in iium. Do we have same class for this coming semester? Perhaps.

Friend for the sake of Allah, inshallah.

Goodbye holiday

2010-07-05T14:54:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum and happy monday to everyone...

A week left for IIUM students to enter a new semester for 2010/2011 session. While i was sorting all my books that are no longer to be used, i found a book that recalls back my enthusiasm of being a new student when i was first year of my study. It is ta'aruf week's book.

The book contains song of iium student and it is inspiring me. So, let us look the song for a while to raise the spirit of learning for this new coming semester, inshallah.

ALWAYS STRIVE FOR THE BEST

WE ARE LEADING THE REST

LET THE SPIRIT BURNS IN OUR ZEALOUS PLEDGE

WITH THE MISSION IN MIND

AND THE VISION OF TRIUMPH

BUILT THE GARDEN WE HOLD GLORIFIED

SURGING FORWARD WITH KNOWLEDGE AND VIRTUE

SUPERIORITY WILL COME TRUE

WE ARE THE LEADERS OF THE UMMAH

TOWARDS ACHIEVING GLOBAL EXCELLENCE

WITH PROGRESSIVENESS AND DYNAMISM

WE WILL REALIZE THE MISSION

STRIVE FOR INTEGRATION, ISLAMISATION, INTERNATIONALISM

PURSUING GREATNESS

THE NATION WITNESS AND BEHOLD

WE'LL GAIN EXCELLENCE IN EVERY FIELD

THAT'S THE VOW WE KEEP

SO LET US PRAY MAY WE WILL ALWAYS SUCCEED

Do you still remember this song my dear iium's buddies?

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Two days left for me to stay at home coz i am involved with a university's program. I am reluctant to leave my home sweet home to be honest. oh..oh.. I really need back my momentum of study.

Goodbye holiday!

Spaghetti

2010-07-04T19:30:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum to all friends.

When youmeyaat afeefah talks about cooking and eating delicious food....

Today is a last day for my little sister to stay at home for her long holiday. So, my mom suggests me to make something quit special for her. Spaghetti (special la tu..). Alhamdulillah i cooked spaghetti for lunch. My mom's recipe is really increases my appetite to eat. Let me share the recipe with friends, in case some of you wanna try it by yourself. Believe me, it is easy and simple to cook yet nutritious.

add meat ball to make it tastier.

Main ingredients:

Spaghetti: 500gram (a packet)
Onion: 3 medium onions
Garlic: 3 medium garlics
Tomato: 5 fresh tomatoes
Vegetable oil: 5 tbsp
Ground meat: 800 gram
Chili: 1 tbsp blended chili
Mushroom: 1 tin of mushroom
Vegetable: a half bunch of selery
Prego pasta sauce: 300 gram (to taste)
Tomato sauce: 200 gram (to taste)
Water: 1 cup
Salt: 2 tbsp (to taste)
Sugar: 1 tbsp (to taste)

Directions:

For the sauce:
1. Chop onion, garlic, tomatoes, mushroom finely/ dicely

2. fry the onion, garlic and blended chili with the oil until golden, crisp and fragrant.

2. add the meat and diced tomatoes and fry until it changes color about10 minutes.

3. add the diced mushroom, and selery .

4. add the prego sauce of pasta, tomato sauce, water, salt, sugar and boil slowly for 45 minutes.

For the spaghetti:
1. Add spaghetti to boiling water and let it cook as desired.

2. Sieve the spaghetti and rinse with cold water

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I enjoy cooking... because i like food and love eating when i'm at home.
Wanna know one top secret that makes the cooking is delicious and marvelous?
Just COOK WITH LOVE.

she's now a university student

2010-07-04T15:11:00.002+08:00

Assalamualaikum and a very good day to all friends.

For today's entry, it is just a relaxed and short entry. Alhamdulillah, my parents and i came together with my little sister for her first day of registration in UTM for today. Nothing to say but i noticed that she's a big enough now!

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Dear jal jal,
Hope you can manage yourself with a new friends, environment and study.
Make sure you get dean's list for this very beginning of your semester, inshallah.
Nothing to worry about your DnT coz umi and ayah will manage and set for you.
Happy learning and enjoy your orientation week!
(jangan menangis pula bila dah ditinggalkan kat utm tu :)..)

abaya shops for abaya lovers

2010-07-03T00:03:00.002+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all beloved friends.

When youmeyaat afeefah talks about abayat...

For today's entry i wanna share with all abaya lovers some of abaya shops that i bought for most of my abayas. Feel free to drop by at the websites for those who have desire to buy abayas and those who have ask me the online abaya shops.

my very first abaya. i shop at the abaya souq

for the extra bling for my abaya at abaya elegan

i love this abaya. so lovely. shop at aida abaya

modest abaya at annisa fashion

my wish list abaya at black beauty . suit with all size

i bought abaya saloma at black beauty

my favorite abaya. dazzling abaya at miss abaya

i love this abaya too. shop at muslimah's closet

the latest abaya that i shop at abaya souq

Abayat that i dream to buy :).... i wanna let you know some designs and names of abayas

bisht abaya

butterfly abaya. very feminine

bahrain abaya. the cutting like caftan

gorgeous qatar abaya

the one and only white abaya that i like most

Girls, there are lot of abaya websites sell abayas from dubai, makah, qatar, kuwait, jordan and others. I just put the name of blogshop that i have bought and i satisfied with.

Happy shopping girls.

Advice from him

2010-06-30T20:11:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all friends.

Muslim scholar...

When i was googling, i found something that attracts my eyes to read the rest of the entry of a website. It is very beneficial advices from Syeikh Abdullah Azzam to us.

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1. Wahai Para Da’i Islam!
Carilah kematian niscaya anda akan dikurniai kehidupan. Janganlah kamu semua sampai tertipu oleh angan-angan kalian. Janganlah kalian sampai tertipu oleh buku-buku yang anda baca dan amalan-amalan sunnah yang anda lakukan sehingga anda melupakan kewajiban2 besar.

2.Wahai Para Ulama Islam!
Majulah kalian untuk memimpin generasi yang ingin kembali kepada Rabb-nya ini. Janganlah kalian cenderung kepada kehidupan dunia.

3.Wahai Kaum Muslimin!
Telah lama kalian tidur nyenyak, sehingga kerosakan bermaharajalela di negeri kalian.

4.Wahai Kaum Wanita!
Jauhilah kehidupan mewah dan megah kerana kemewahan itu musuh jihad, disamping akan merosak jiwa manusia. Hindarilah barang-barang yang tidak terlalu penting dan cukupkanlah dengan keperluan-keperluan asas.

Binalah anak-anak kalian untuk menjadi orang yang biasa susah, jantan, berani dan siap sedia berjihad. Tanamkanlah pada jiwa anak-anak kalian cinta Jihad dan perjuangan. Jadikanlah rumah kamu seperti sarang singa, bukn ladang ayam daging yang   diberi makan utuk disembelih para taghut.

Hiduplah dengan penuh prihatin terhadap musibah kaum Muslimin. Biasakanlah paling tidak sehari dalam seminggu hidup menyerupai kehidupan kaum Muhajirin dan Mujahidin yang hanya memakan sekerat roti   kering dan beberapa teguk air.

5.Wahai Anak-Anak!
Didiklah diri dengan bunyi ledakan bom, dengungan senjata, naguman jet2 perang dan dentuman kereta kebal. Jauhkanlah diri kalian dari dendangan lagu-lagu dan muzik-muzik orang-orang pengumbar nafsu. Jauhkanlah punggung kalian dari tilam orang-orang yang hidup bermewah-mewahan.

6.Wahai Kalian Anak-Anakku!
Sesungguhnya kalian tidak mendapatkan perhatianku kecuali sedikit. Kalian tidak memperoleh pembinaan dariku kecuali sedikit. Ya, aku tidak memberikan perhatian kepada kalian. Tetapi apa yang dapat aku lakukan sementara malapetaka terhadap kaum Muslimin membuat orang hamil melahirkan kandungannya dan musibah yang menimpa Umat Islam membuat rambut bayi-bayi beruban. Demi Allah, aku tidak kuasa hidup tenang sementara api malapetaka membakar hati kaum Muslimin.

Aku tidak rela hidup di tengah-tengah kalian menikmati hidangan-hidangan lazat. Demi Allah, sejak dulu aku membenci kemewahan, baik dalam pakaian, makanan ataupun tempat tinggal. Aku berusaha mengangkat kalian ke tingkat orang-orang zuhud dan aku jauhkan kalian dari lumpur kemewahan.

Aku wasiatkan kepada kalian agar berpegang teguh kepada Aqidah Salaf   (Ahlus Sunnah wal-Jama’ah) .
Jauhkanlah diri kalian dari sikap berlebih-lebihan. Baca dan hafazlah   Al-Quran. Jagalah lisan, bangunlah malam, lakukanlah puasa sunnah, bergaullah   dengan orang-orang baik, aktiflah bersama gerakan Islam.

Maha Suci Engkau Ya Allah, dan Maha Terpuji Engkau. Aku bersaksi bahwa tiada Ilah kecuali Engkau. Aku memohon keampunan-Mu dan bertaubat   kepada-Mu.

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This is part of his advices to muslim in all over the world.

If we compare the advices with our life, maybe we are far away from a true life style of muslim. Let us change our habits and life style for the sake of youm al-akhirah. Inshallah.

when you sin....

2010-06-20T12:21:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh to all friends..

May you begin your life without making sin, inshallah. For today's entry let me share with you something about sin. To be honest, have you felt something when you make sin?? Absolutely we feel uncomfortable, regret and guilty.

Always remember this hadith in our life....

الإثمُ مَا حَاكَ فِي صَدرِكَ وَكَرِهتَ أَن يَطَّلعَ عَليهِ النَّاسُ - رواه مسلم

SIN IS THE THING WHICH DISTURBS YOUR HEART AND THE THING YOU DON'T WANT OTHERS TO KNOW.

Rajab is coming

2010-06-14T18:54:00.002+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh...

Brothers and sisters in islam,
just spend one minute of your time to recite this doa:

'Allahumma baa-rik-lanaa fee-rajaba wa sha'baana wa bal-lig-naa shah-ra ramadhaana.'
'O Allah, make the months of Rajab and Shabaan blessed for us, and let us reach the month of Ramadhan.'

In order to enter Ramadhan in the best possible manner, one has to prepare himself in the months of Rajab and Shabaan. It has been said that Rajab is the month to sow seeds (good actions), Shabaan is the month in which we should water those seeds (with tears of sorrow) and Ramadhan is the month in which we reap the harvest.

barakallahu lakuma

2010-06-05T21:28:00.003+08:00

Bismillahirrahmanirraheem..

Alhamdulillah i have attended my friend's wedding, Sharifah Nabihah and Muhammad Zakiran today on evening. mabrouk for the couple. both of them are my batch in MATRI.

she is now called Pn. Nabihah. (pengapit pun batch saya juga)

بارك الله لكما وبارك عليكما وجمع بينكما في خير

Special dua for Sh. Nabihah and Muhammad Zakiran:
May Allah grant both of you be filled with faith and trust and give both of you the grace to live with each other in peace and harmony.

May you always bear with one another weaknesses and grow from each other strengths. May Allah help you to forgive one another failings and grant both of you patience, kindness, cheerfulness and the spirit of placing the well-being of one another ahead of self.

May the love that brought both of you together grow and mature with each passing year. May Allah bring both of you ever closer to Him through your love for each other. Ameen.

This nasyeed is dedicated for them-especially to my beloved sahibah, you are already changed your status :) ---may you become a best wife as described in this nasyeed. inshallah.

an awesome nasyeed from ahmad bukhatir. it comes with english subtitles. may you enjoy listening this arabic nasyeed.

where is your heart

2010-05-26T12:46:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabaratuh..

for today's entry, i'm glad to share with you a video clip that i'm touched. a talk by an imam which is conducted in arabic language and it comes with english translation. hope yo get the benefit from it. inshallah.

let us slow down and question ourselves today----- which heart is ours?
do we still living for appearances and worldly pleasures?

May Allah cause our hearts to turn in His obidience constantly and let it not be deceived by the illusion of this world.

Surely on the ultimate day, everything will seem regretful except the good deeds and the time we spend only to get His Mercy and Pleasure....

Tag

2010-05-22T12:51:00.003+08:00

Besmellahi ar-rahmani ar-raheem...

Thanks to melatidaisy for tagging me.

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3 names in your message inbox
-umi
-ayah
-kak safiah zulkifli

your main ringtone
-arabic belly dance

what you did at 12 last night?
- i was blogging at youmeyaat afeefah

who was the last person you went with? where?
-kak khairu
- we went to operation room arabic debate club

the colour of t-shirt you are wearing now
-brown

the last thing you did
- i have done my revision study..

3 of your everyday favourite items
-laptop
-hanphone
-abaya

the colour of your bedroom
- duo colors, light peach and light pink

how much money in your wallet now?
- rm ***

how's life?
- indeed, life is short, a journey and deceptive

your favourite song
-sabah el kheir by mys shlsh (arabic song)

what will you do next weekend?
-inshallah i will be a facilitator in SMA-IRSHAD, the program is about Arabic language

when was the last time you see your mom?
-last two weeks

where is she now?
- at home

when was the last time you talk to your parents?
-yesterday

who is the last person talked to you last night?
-tuyah

the last suprise you got
- a gorgeous sport shoes from aida, my ex roommate. thumbs up for the gift.

last thing you borrowed from your friend
-i couldn't remember.

who is your bf/ gf/ husband/ wife?
- YOU. (btw, bf/gf is prohibited in islam for unmarried couple)

what do you feel right now?
- i am hungry
- quite scary for midterm on this coming monday (stop blogging ya afeefah)

wanna share with who?
- already shared

who know your secret?
- my lord Allah
- my mom and my close friends

they keep your secret?
- inshallah they do.

are you angry with someone?
- do i need to feel anger at all? naa...

what do you order at McD?
-BOYCOTT McD.. please. for the sake of islam and palestine.

the last time you feel so sad?
- on registration day in this short semester

i wanna tag? (i choose sisters only. hope you don't mind)
- sarah hamizah
- si merah padi
- atiqah
- aisyah ulya
- ARMS
- afifah
- sinar islami
- ummi syuhairah

for those who have been tagged, please take the tag :). thank you.

مشكورة

2010-05-22T01:05:00.004+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh,

today's entry is dedicated to someone who is concerned for myself even though i never meet her. she asked me to share what i got from her in youmeyaat afeefah. so, first and foremost, thanks a lot to aisyah humairah najihah for the sweet hello kitty key chain gift. i like it.

my second hello kitty gifts.

oh, it is a very long time i do not hear about hello kitty since i was in primary school. i still remember when my father bought for us-my siblings a tiny mini violin from japan decorated in hello kitty design. the size is only my palm.

...i think the most suitable place to hang this lovely pink keychain is at handphone. isn't it?

my sony ericsson G900. it must be nice after it is hanged.

secondly, thanks a lot to my ex roommate for making me really surprised by giving me a super gorgeous sport shoes. seriously, i really love it. simple yet modest.

the design is almost same with mine. the difference is the brand. my gift is POWER branded.

Dear friends,

i just want to let you know that i am really appreciated in each gift i got because it is very worth for me. thanks a lot for those who spend their money for me. again, it is really appreciated :).

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عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رضي الله عنه عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ : "تَهَادُوْا تَحَابُّوا" رَوَاهُ اَلْبُخَارِيُّ

"BERILAH HADIAH ANTARA KALIAN NESCAYA KALIAN AKAN SALING MENGASIHI"

i am a thai's

2010-05-20T11:55:00.006+08:00

Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh..
Dear beloved readers and visitors, allow me to write an entry in English and please forgive me if you find any grammatical error in this entry because it has been a long time since i don't use English language in my handwriting. the entry might be in a manglish style.

today's entry is related to who am i actually. it is nice to share with readers about my experience due to be a..............

THAILAND GIRL...

sweet thailand children

since when i became a thailand girl i do not know. maybe when i am studying in international islamic university IIUM, all of the sudden my nationality has changed. it is quite funny for me.
there are students and even cafeteria worker in this IIUM claimed that i am from thailand by asking me the questions about my nationality. i am quite shocked to be honest. am i look like thai's?

if you earger to know how i bacame thailand girl so, these were the situations....

situation a

one day on weekend, a cafeteria worker made his conversation with me when i was ordering food for lunch by asking me..........

worker: you don't go back home sister?
afeefah: oh no. i'm just staying at mahallah.
worker: i see, it's ok, thailand is far from IIUM
afeefah: huh? thailand?
worker: yeah, of corse, you are from thailand right?- (he spoke confidently)
afeefah: oh my god...noo..i am malaysian.
worker: really? i thought you are thai's...
afeefah: no..no..no..

the question really makes me shocked because that was the first time i was asked like that.

situation b

when i took lunch with my friend, suddenly she asked me a question that never cross my mind.

friend: afeefah, do you have lineage from thailand?
afeefah; huh? why do you ask me that question?
friend: because of you skin colour. it's quite different from pure malaysian.
afeefah: hmm..is there any relation between skin colour and thailand?
friend: yeah, of course.
afeefah; actually, i have thailand's blood from my father's side. not exactly thailand. my untie in kg. padang halban can speak thailan fluenty. everytime i went to her house especially when eid, i feel that i was not in malaysia..hehe
friend: oh,i see. now i get the answer.

again, i faced the question about thailand.....

situation c

i sit beside a new friend in a debating class. a conversation goes like this....

friend: are you a new student in this class?

afeefah: yeah,
friend: oh, i see. i have attend the class twice.
afeefah: alhamdulillah, that's good.
friend: are your first year now?
afeefah: nope. i am third year of my study.
friend: oh. i thought you're first year.
afeefah: hee.
friend: wher're you come from?
afeefah: huh? i am from mahallah.
friend: no..no.. i mean,your nationality
afeefah:????????....... i am malaysian
friend: really? i thought you are thai's.
afeefah: am i look like thai's?
friend: yeah, you and your style.
afeefah: oh my god. what style do i have?
friend: hehe.. i don't know how to tell you, but my first impression when i look at you, i thought you are from thailand.
afeefah: huhu..what ever.

again and again the same question i faced......

situation d

a conversation goes with my friend as well.....
friend: when i look at you, i know you are not pure malaysian
afeefah: huh?
friend: what you mixed with?
afeefah: hmm..malaysia is a multi racial country. i think there is no malaysian that pure malay.
friend: did you mixed with thailand?
afeefah: (i was quiet bored to face this situation). noo.noo..i am pure malaysian.

oh, i hope that was the last question from them about thailand and my nationality.....it is enough.
but actually, it is nice when people claimed that i am not look like malaysian :).

those are my experiences of being thailand girl.

i do not know which part of mine shows that i am from thailand. if i ask you, can you answer me?

am i thai's?

nooo..ANA MALEEZIA!

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who you are, where your from are not important because Allah never looks his servants based on their nationality.

ياايها الناس انا خلقناكم من ذكر وانثى وجعلناكم شعوبا وقبائل لتعارفوا ان اكرمكم عند الله اتقاكم

“O mankind, We have created you male and female, and appointed you races and tribes, that you may know one another. Surely the noblest among you in the sight of God is the most god-fearing of you.”

Quran 49:13

lower your gaze,means for reward...

2010-05-18T19:34:00.000+08:00

Subhanallah.
May Allah bless this brother.
Do take a lesson from this story.

Andai nabi Muhammad s.a.w hidup dalam hatimu.....

2010-05-16T16:07:00.014+08:00

اللهم صل على محمد وعلى أهله وصحبه أجمعين

Andai nabi muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam hidup dalam hatimu,

pasti matamu itu dihidupkan dengan kehidupan mata baginda, tanpa engkau melihat perkara yang haram.

telingamu itu dihidupkan dengan kehidupan telinga baginda, tanpa engkau mendengar perkara yang berdosa.

Andai nabi Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam hidup dalam hatimu,

pasti engkau menuturkan pada lidahmu ungkapan supaya engkau dapat bertemu dengan rasulullah.

nescaya engkau tidak mengutamakan sesuatu yang binasa berbanding yang kekal.

engkau tidak mencemarkan hatimu dengan sikap benci terhadap orang yang menyakitimu.

juga engkau tidak memutuskan silaturrahim yang baginda larangi.

Andai nabi Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam hidup dalam hatimu,

nescaya masa itu tidak akan berlalu melainkan engkau memohon rahsia kehidupan dengan mengingati Allah.

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Rasulullah s.a.w adalah pendidik dan guru yang paling sempurna lagi agung dalam sejarah kehidupan penciptaan manusia. berterima kasihkah kita pada baginda?

umm

2010-05-13T14:44:00.003+08:00

يا أماه...أنت روحي وحياتي

كل عام وأنت بخير يا غالية

أمك...أمك...أمك...قول رسولك

apabila mata melihat kecantikan...

2010-05-04T19:31:00.003+08:00

beauty is in the eye of the beholder

manusia apabila terpandang kecantikan dan keindahan, mata terus saja melekat menuruti pandangannya.

seakan disihir matanya dengan keelokan ciptaan tuhan.

melihat tanpa jemu, terus-menerus. tanpa mahu bekerdip walau sekejap cuma.

laksana wanita mesir terkagum-kagum melihat ketampanan nabi Yusuf a.s.

yang diungkapkan dirinya bukanlah manusia, bahkan malaikat yang mulia

lantaran kesempurnaan, keelokan rupa paras serta kecantikan yang dimilikinya...

boleh jadi kerlingan penuh takjub mendapat pahala andai disusuli ucapan subhanallah..mashallah.

boleh jadi lirikan mata mengundang murka andai dituruti pandangan pertama dengan pandangan mata kedua.

usah sekali tewas dengan panahan beracun umpanan syaitan.

ketahuilah, bukan semua ciptaan yang indah lagi cantik halal untuk dilihat, apatah lagi untuk dinikmati

kerana pandangan mata itu ada batasnya.

sekatlah pandangan mata demi meraih kelazatan ibadah serta khusyuk dalam beramal

kerana itulah janji allah buat hambanya.

jika aku mahu engkau menundukkan pandangan, aku dahululah yang perlu menundukkan pandangan.....

kenapa bersusah payah mahu membantu palestin?

2010-05-02T11:48:00.004+08:00

masjid al-aqsa as-syareef

sekiranya kalian ditanya dengan soalan 'ini'- yang ianya sangat ringkas, apa yang mahu dijawab?

''buat apa nak derma kat palestin, pada hal masih ramai lagi orang-orang miskin kat malaysia ni, kenapa susah-susah mahu menolong mereka?''

mudah bukan soalan ini? tetapi soalan ini mempunyai kuasa yang mampu untuk membuatkan kita terdiam sejenak berfikir memberi jawapan yang tepat untuknya.

fikirkan...

apa jawapan yang sesuai untuk dijawab bagi golongan yang punyai mentaliti seperti ini?

fikirkan...

apa jawapan yang patut diberikan untuk memberikan kesedaran kepada mereka ini?

kami bersusah payah mahu membantu palestin kerana ...............................................

APA YANG BERLAKU DI PALESTIN ADALAH ISU AQIDAH UMAT ISLAM KERANA MEREKA MEMPERJUANGKAN DAN MEMPERTAHANKAN MASJID AL AQSA AS-SYAREEF. SEBUAH MASJID YANG BUKAN MENJADI MILIK MUTLAK PALESTIN, BAHKAN MILIK BERSAMA UMAT ISLAM DISELURUH DUNIA. IA BUKAN LAGI SEKADAR ISU BANGSA ATAU NEGARA. HAL KRITIKAL YANG BERLAKU DI PALESTIN SUDAH DIKIRA WAJIB UNTUK DIBERI PERHATIAN, BANTUAN DAN PERTOLONGAN.

abaya saloma

2010-04-29T19:19:00.003+08:00

Assalamualaikum semua.

Pernah dengar nama abaya saloma? pada saya, abaya saloma sekadar nama jolokan kerana potongan lengan abaya yang unik. bentuknya sama seperti potongan lengan seniwati saloma. jika dinegara arab, saya pasti namanya bukan seperti itu.

alhamdulillah, abaya saloma yang dipesan sudah sampai hari ini. abaya yang menarik pada pandangan mata saya. sudah bertambah lagi koleksi abaya dengan fesyen abaya saloma :).

material- satin

cuba lihat potongan bukaan lengan abaya ini. besar bukan? sebab itu mungkin ia dinamakan abaya saloma. satu sudah cukup untuk rekaan abaya saloma didalam almari saya. sekadar mempelbagaikan koleksi abaya saja.

kepada penggemar abaya, saiz dan ukuran abaya sering berubah-ubah mengikut kepada pengeluarnya. sila berhati-hati ketika memilih. kebiasaannya, potongan abaya selalunya lebar dan perlu untuk di 'alter'.

jika kalian melihat wanita arab memakai abaya yang 'just nice', itu bermakna abayanya ditempah dikedai, bukan dibeli 'ready stock'. abaya yang dijual selalunya disertakan sekali dengan selendang yang sama corak dengan abaya.

terdapat cara mudah untuk membezakan antara abaya dan bukan abaya- maksud saya, abaya itu buatan negara arab. baik, cuba perhatikan lengan abaya, jika terdapat jahitan dibahagian atas dan dibawah lengan, maka itu adalah abaya arab. jika tidak ada, maka abaya itu bukan keluaran negara arab. jelas?

setakat abaya yang dibeli, ukuran saiz abaya terdapat beberapa jenis. jika jubah, saiz biasanya mengikut ukuran bahu. berbeza dengan abaya yang mengikut ukuran burst-hip-length. ini contoh saiz abaya arab:

1. 1,2,3,4,5 = xs,s,m,l,xl- abaya jordan

2. 52,54,56,58,60 = s,m,l,xl,xxl- abaya saudi dan dubai

3. xs,s,m,l,xl- abaya mekah, madinah dan dubai

Itu sahaja cerita ringkas mengenai abaya. Saya sekadar berkongsi gembira apabila mendapat abaya yang dipesan.

kesilapan teknikal

2010-04-27T17:45:00.002+08:00

semester tiga bagi sesi 2009/2010 sudah bermula. cuti dua minggu untuk semester dua terlalu singkat bagi saya. terkejar-kejar ke sana dan ke mari dengan pelbagai program dan aktiviti. masa jika tidak diisi dengan islam, pasti akan dipenuhkan dengan jahiliyah.

bertemu dengan semester tiga kali ini dimulakan dengan hal-hal yang tidak menarik. mahu saja menulis satu persatu. tetapi cukuplah apa yang tidak menarik itu buat simpanan diri saja.

******

hari ini kelas seawal 9 pagi untuk subjek traditional criticism yang diajar oleh Dr. nasr el din ibrahim selama tiga jam. masuk saja ke kelas, barisan pertama kosong tanpa diduduki. manakala barisan kedua dan ketiga kerusinya sudah penuh didudukkan. baik. duduk dibaris hadapan sekali adalah pilihan yang terbaik daripada duduk dibarisan ke empat. setuju?

ustaz mengedarkan kertas kehadiran. kebiasaannya nama saya berada sekitar nombor pertama atau kedua. almaklumlah, nama dimulakan dengan abjad A . kertas itu diteliti berkali-kali. malangnya nama saya tiada didalam kertas kehadiran itu. pelik. saya sangat yakin sudah melakukan pre-register untuk semester tiga. apa sudah terjadi?

tempoh belajar sudah satu jam berlalu. ustaz bermundar mandir. rehat dua minit sebentar. telefon bimbit saya bergetar petanda masuknya message.

sender: kak raudhah
salam. afeefah, anti jadi tak ambil subjek practical grammar sem ni? kelas dah mula sekarang ni.

terkebil-kebil apabila message itu dibaca. kelas practical grammar? saya ada register ke untuk subjek tu? takkan masa kelas boleh clash kot? lama juga saya memikirkanya. rupa-rupanya............................. saya sudah salah masuk kelas. ohh tidak!

aduhai, kelas sudah satu jam berlalu, macam mana saya mahu meminta izin untuk keluar ke kelas. malu!malu!.
patutlah nama saya tiada dalam kertas kehadiran, sudah silap kelas rupanya. hee. saya sudah tidak boleh fokus dengan pengajaran ustaz. mahu kekal duduk atau meminta izin untuk keluar?

afeefah: معذرة الأستاذ، أتتغير الفصل

ustaz: لا بأس، أنت مستمعة

afeefah: حقيقة يا الأستاذ عندي الفصل الآن وأنا أستأذنك للخروج

ustaz: اه، نعم ما في مشكلة

segannnya. dengan membuat muka kering dan tidak bersalah, segera saya keluar ke kelas. rakan-rakan kelas tersenyum kelucuan. keputusan itulah yang terbaik. daripada duduk di dalam kelas tanpa fokus, lebih baik saya hadirkan diri ke kelas practical grammar yang sudah bermula jam 9 pagi lagi.

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kesimpulannya, sila print confirmation slip setiap kali mula semester baru dan pastikan masuk ke kelas yang betul. jika tidak, anda mungkin akan dilumuri dengan perasaan segan andai mahu keluar ke kelas yang sebenar.

talian hayat gaza

2010-04-20T23:41:00.003+08:00

apa yang berlaku di palestin bukanlah isu semasa yang ceritanya berkala dan bermusim. tetapi ujian yang menimpa palestin adalah isu umat islam diseluruh dunia yang tidak pernah berkesudahan sehinggalah palestin dan penduduknya dibebaskan daripada belenggu zionis israel. sejauh mana kita mengambil tahu dan kisah, semuanya bergantung kepada rasa tanggungjawab dan kasih kita kepada mereka.

tidakkah kalian perasan bahawa ujian yang dihadapi penduduk palestin, seakan allah menjadikan mehnah itu sebagai sumber untuk mereka mengutip pahala dan gelaran syahid fi sabilillah. mereka di sana berjuang sehabis tenaga, sekudrat upaya untuk mempertahankan al-quds. sedangkan kita? kita masih seperti ini. tiada peningkatan diri malah tidak sanggup untuk berkorban wang ringgit walaupun sedikit demi palestin.

masih belum terlambat untuk saya memperkenalkan aktiviti penting yang berkaitan dengan palestin. ianya adalah kempen talian hayat untuk gaza yang sedang hangat dijalankan seluruh dunia atau dikenali sebagai LIFELINE 4 GAZA. kempen ini mensasarkan rm10 juta yang akan diperuntukkan oleh palestin dengan menggunakan kapal sebagai pengangkutan utama.

justeru, saya mengajak diri saya juga kalian semua untuk sedia berkorban sedikit wang ringgit demi rakyat palestin. disana bayi-bayi menangis kelaparan, kanak-kanak yang hidup melarat dan menderita, pejuang-pejuang yang tiada bekalan ubat untuk dirawat juga ibu-ibu yang hilang sumber pendapatan apabila syahidnya sang bapa.

kemana hilangnya sifat kemanusiaan, simpati, empati dan kasih kita kepada mereka? mahukah kita derita ini berterusan dan berpanjangan?

aneh juga apabila kita mampu untuk menghadiri program dan berkempen untuk palestin, namun kita masih tidak mampu mentarbiyah hati dan diri untuk mengeluarkan duit walaupun sesen untuk mereka.

cukupkan keperluan hidup mereka dengan duit infak kita, nescaya allah akan mencukupkan kehidupan kita. percayalah.

sebelum kapal-kapal berlepas, sebelum peluang untuk berinfak terlepas..maka berinfaklah dengan hati yang ikhlas di..

nama akaun: tabung haluan palestin

nombor akaun: 5-644-902-085-28

bank: maybank berhad

ALLAHUAKBAR

farsyi alturab

2010-04-19T13:21:00.003+08:00

saya teringat sesuatu apabila melihat kembali video klip farsyi alturab.......

farsyi alturab. ini perkataan bahasa arab. perkataan ini jika dipisahkan mempunyai makna yang tersendiri.

farsyi/ firash: katil, tempat tidur, hamparan
alturab: tanah, debu, kotoran

tetapi jika digabungkan, ia memberikan sebuah makna. mungkin boleh dimaksudkan sebagai hamparan debu. apa yang istimewanya perkataan ini pada saya? inilah satu-satunya lagu arab yang dinyanyikan oleh orang arab asli (orang arab ada juga ke yang asli?) yang pertama kali saya dengari . ada kesannya selepas mendengar lagu ini.

perkataan ini pertama kali di dengari semasa saya di marhalah khassah satu di matri. lagu yang diperkenalkan kepada saya dan rakan sekelas ini ialah ustaz zaki bin ahmad. ketika itu beliau mengajar matapelajaran balaghah dan nahu yang kebetulan pada hari yang sama. pada hari rabu, selesai kelas balaghah, ustaz meminta kami agar tidak membawa buku nahu dikelas petangnya. kejutan apa agaknya mahu ustaz buat..

jam dua petang, ustaz datang ke kelas bersama laptopnya dengan dua speaker yang kecil comel. laptop dibuka dan kami diperdengarkan lagu farsyi alturab. diulangnya berkali-kali sehingga kami dapat mengangkap perkataan yang disebut oleh vokalisnya. almaklumlah, mendengar nyanyian arab bukanlah menjadi kebiasaan. hakikatya kami sekelas terpinga sebentar dengan apa yang berlaku.

ustaz: hari ini kita tidak belajar, ana akan tuliskan lirik lagu ini dan antum semua salin.

kami menoleh sesama sendiri dan sekali lagi tertanya-tanya. ustaz tidak pula menerangkan motif beliau berbuat demikian. sampai ke sudah hingga ke hari ini saya masih tidak mengetahui kenapa ustaz mahu kami mendengar lagu itu. jika direnungkan, lagu itu penuh dengan nilai-nilai muhasabah seorang manusia terhadap kematian. memang bagus. mungkin ustaz mahu berkongsi apa yang beliau dapat dengan kami semua. terima kasih ustaz atas perkongsian lagu itu.

selepas mendengar lagu itu serta tahu lirik penuh dan maksudnya, saya mula teruja untuk mengetahui lebih banyak lagu-lagu arab yang dinyanyikan oleh orang arab asli. ianya seperti batu loncatan untuk menerokai dalam dunia muzik arab saya.

saya mungkin bersifat konsorvatif dengan muzik tempatan. boleh bilang dengan jari lagu-lagu yang saya tahu. kumpulan muzik yang saya minati hanyalah raihan, hijjaz dan opick, juga kumpulan muzik yang selalu saya dengar semasa di dalam kereta sewaktu saya masih kecil. kemana hilangnya kaset itu. saya pun tidak tahu. yang pasti lagunya bersemangat dan sarat dengan unsur-unsur perjuangan. kelihatan saya seperti out of date. sebenarnya........memang pun.

sedikit lirik yang kasetnya telah hilang yang saya cuba ingati...

titisan darah mengalir sayu
membasah bumi
mengukir taring
peluru ganas mengoyak tubuh
mencarik daging menembus tulang..

kalian pernah dengar tak lagu ini? ada sesiapa mahu dan tahu menyambungnya?

sedari dulu saya punyai kesukaran untuk menghafal lirik lagu. boleh jadi satu kebaikan, mungkin juga kelemahan. walaupun lagu itu sudah didengar berpuluh kali, namun saya masih tidak tahu turutan liriknya. saya hanya boleh menghafal jika saya berniat untuk menghafal. jika tidak, dengarlah seratus kalipun..saya tetap tidak dapat menghafalnya. mungkin terjadi kerana muzik hanya dijadikan sebagai halwa telinga. singgah di cuping telinga saja sudah cukup, tidak perlu dibawa sampai ke fikiran.

masih ingat lagi, umi berulang kali menyebut bahawa muzik ini boleh melalaikan manusia juga mengeraskan hati. ya, saya setuju dengan umi. bukankah lebih baik jika digantikan lagu ini dengan bacaan alquran dari syeikh-syeikh yang mempunyai pelbagai cara bacaannya. bukan sahaja mendapat pahala mendengar, tetapi turut melembut dan menenangkan hati. oh, damainya...

bila bercakap tentang bacaan para imam, jika disingkap kembali dunia remaja di matri dahulu, saya cukup terpesona dengan bacaan syeikh imam masyari rasheed al-afaasi. mungkin kerana pertama kali mendengar bacaan alquran yang berlenggok berirama. oh, jatuh suka dibuatnya dengan cara bacaan imam tersebut. nama pun suka, kaset-kaset bacaannya saya cari dan kumpul. menjelang cuti sekolah, diputar-putarkan kaset itu berulang-ulang kali di bilik sampai keletihan radio. kasihan...

semakin lama saya mula mengetahui para imam yang hebat bacaannya dengan pelbagai gaya dan cara. mungkin juga kerana rakan seperjuangan debat turut berkongsi video bacaan imam yang mereka dapat dengan saya. alhamdulillah.

ada sesiapa dalam kalangan kalian yang mahu berkongsi dengan saya imam-imam yang kalian minati?

duhai wanita..

2010-04-04T19:15:00.000+08:00

wanita solehah itu ibarat mutiara yang tetutup. lumrah hidup, makin tersembunyi, makin mahu diketahui. aku juga punya impian untuk tidak dilihat, dan tidak diketahui oleh mana-mana lelaki ajnabi. tersimpan rapi, dijaga malah ditutupi. laksana bidadari yang dipingit di dalam khemah-khemah, yang tidak dilihat mahupun disentuh oleh manusia. alangkah bahagianya andai menjadi wanita seperti itu. mahal dirinya kerana maruah yang dijaga dan akhlak yang terpelihara. seorang wanita solehah itu ialah apabila dirinya tidak dilihat dan tidak pula melihat lelaki. mampukah aku menjadi seperti itu?

duhai wanita terpuji,
seringkali aku terfikir, wujud lagikah wanita pemalu lagi terpelihara seperti pendamping setia nabi musa? safura. begitu masyhur ceritanya. ketika beliau di utus oleh bapanya untuk menjemput nabi musa ke rumah untuk membalas kebaikan baginda. dan dalam perjalanan itu, angin bertiup agak kencang hingga terselak kainnya lalu menampakkan kakinya. malunya safura dengan hal itu, lantas mempersilakan nabi musa untuk mendahului langkahnya. subhanallah. alangkah terpeliharanya wanita ini. dimanakah lagi mahu dicari wanita-wanita seperti itu pada akhir zaman ini?

duhai wanita yang dikasihi,
sedarilah, engkau diciptakan dengan penuh kecantikan dan kesegaran. ianya bukan untuk dilihat apatah lagi ditayangkan kerana engkau terlalu mahal harganya. aku juga gadis sepertimu, punya fitrah sukakan kecantikan. tetapi, apalah gunanya cantik itu andai diri tidak dihiasi dengan iman dan akhlak yang mulia. cantik luaran tetapi busuk dalaman. itukah yang engkau mahu? simpanlah kecantikan sementaramu itu demi meraih redha allah. biarlah kurang dimata manusia tetapi cantik pada pandangan allah. bukan kah memperoleh keredhaan allah itu setenang-tenang nikmat yang manis untuk dirasakan?

duhai wanita muslimah,
takutilah dengan sabda nabi yang berbunyi : tiadalah satu fitnah sesudah peninggalanku yang lebih berbahaya bagi kaum lelaki selain daripada fitnah wanita. mahukah engkau menjadi penyumbang kepada kelalaian lelaki? aduh, hibanya hati ini, kerana wanita itu diciptakan bukan sebagai penggoda yang melekakan dunia. tidak mahukah engkau menjadi wanita solehah agar seisi dunia merasakan rahmat kehadiranmu. alangkah beruntungnya jika begitu.

DUNIA ITU PERHIASAN, SEBAIK BAIK PERHIASAN ADALAH WANITA SOLEHAH

lalainya manusia

2010-03-29T19:23:00.000+08:00

sungguh merugi manusia yang berada dalam kelalaian

sibuk mengejar dunia

seronok dengan segala apa yang ada didalamnya

semuanya itu bersifat sementara

lupa tanggunggajawab sebagai hamba

juga penyambung perjuangan rasulullah tercinta..

ya rasulullah...

betapa umatmu dalam lalai dan leka

seolah umatmu membawa khabar nestapa

pasti kau berdurja

manusia...

kamu bermaksiat seakan kamu lupa adanya syurga dan neraka

lupa pada malaikat pencatit dosa dan pahala

lupa adanya allah yang maha melihat segalanya

manusia...

hari kiamat itu sangat pasti

tiada siapa pun yang akan terkecuali

tidak gerunkah kamu?

bekalan apa yang mahu dibawa

sedangkan berimbun-timbun bebanan dosa

manusia..

bertaubatlah selagi pintu taubat terbuka

beramal soleh lah sekudrat upaya

jangan lupa wahai manusia..

rasulullah itu sangat kasih pada umatnya

manusia sahaja yang buat-buat lupa

baginda rela dibaling batu pada tubuhnya

demi menyelamatkan umatnya dari azab neraka

manusia..

kamu berhutang dengan kebaikan rasulullah

jerit perih membawa agama ke pelusuk dunia

hingga kamu merasakan nikmat islam yang sempurna

allahumma solli ala muhammad

ya allah, izinkanlah kami untuk medapat syafaat pesuruhmu

tika berada di mahsyar kelak...

beautiful blogger award

2010-03-25T18:15:00.009+08:00

alhamdulillah, blog ini dapat award setelah tiga bulan muncul. dapat award? kelakar pula rasanya bila ada konsep award dalam dunia blog ini. apa pun, terima kasih ya kerana memilih blog ini untuk memberi award.

award ini diberikan oleh rakan seperjuangan saya di uia, cik melatidaisy . terima kasih melatidaisy. disamping mendapat award ini, ada kerja tambahan yang mesti dipenuhi. atas kesuntukan masa, cik melatidaisy beri saya kelonggaran untuk menjawab soalan yang mana sempat.

ada empat permintaan dari melatidaisy. tapi saya hanya mampu menjawab nombor 1 dan 4 sahaja buat masa ini. final exam mode~ ada masa nanti akan dijawab lagi dua permintaan atau tidak buat langsung. opss.

1. thank and link the person that gave you the award.

2. pass this award to 15 bloggers you've recently discovered and think fantastic

3. contact said blogs and let them know they've won the award

4. state 7 things about yourself.

tujuh perkara tentang saya?

1. i love my family very much, murabbi-murabbi di matri, sahabat-sahabat sefikrah, dan sesiapa yang mengajak saya kepada kebaikan dan kebenaran. saya kasih kamu semua!

2. abaya lover- tengah mencari bisht abaya/ butterfly abaya. susah sangat nak jumpa disini.

3. suka bahasa arab dan apa-apa yang berkaitan dengan arab. alangkah seronoknya jika boleh bercakap bahasa arab setiap masa.

4. memiliki impian dan keinginan untuk belajar di jordan dari darjah 3 lagi. hasrat yang tertangguh. nampaknya uia adalah yang terbaik buat saya untuk degree ini. pasrah.

5. ditakdirkan untuk menjadi seorang yang kidal. anak kepada si kidal (ayah) dan kakak kepada si kidal (manje).

6. memiliki 3 anak saudara yang comel-comel. alhamdulillah. segala yang comel cantik itu milik allah. pinjaman sebentar sahaja. nikmat yang boleh bertukar kepada ujian.

7. i love my name very much. moga saya berakhlak seperti nama saya.

do pray for my lovely final!oh oh...

marhalah khassah

2010-03-09T23:39:00.004+08:00

sapaan di shoutmix oleh sahabat sefikrah saya mengingatkan kembali zaman hidup penuh tarbiyah di bumi wakafan matri. ohh matri. saya mengenal erti kehidupan di suatu tempat yang bernama matri. saya membesar di matri selama 7 tahun. dari tingkatan satu sehingga tingkatan enam atas. bersyukur sangat allah memilih saya untuk belajar di situ.

fasa hidup di marhalah khassah sedikit berlainan daripada fasa tingkatan. batch saya merupakan batch yang paling sedikit dalam sejarah bilangan marhalah khassah. seramai 10 orang sahaja. bilangan yang sedikit ini membuatkan saya selesa untuk berbincang, bertanya, berbual dan bergurau dengan murabbi-murabbi saya. mereka ini bila didekati, lain pula daripada sangkaan pertama saya. sangat baik. sangat keayahan.

menulis post ini membuatkan saya tersenyum apabila mengenangkan gelagat sahabat-sahabat saya. oh, rindunya pada mereka semua. pelajar perempuan hanya 8 orang. dengan merekalah saya belajar, bersembang, berbincang, dan berlawak...saya sangat sayang dan kasih sahabat-sahabat saya. di mana lagi mahu berjumpa dengan sahabat yang benar-benar menjadi seorang sahabat?

batch saya berjaya mencipta sejarah sekaligus memecahkan rekod pencapaian marhalah khassah. buat pertama kalinya pelajar perempuan berhasil mendapat pangkat mumtaz dan juga 10 mumtaz. alhamdulillah, mashallah tabarakallah.. segala usaha dan doa kami tidak sia-sia. allahu akbar.

wajah sahabat-sahabat saya silih berganti bermain dalam fikiran. fajriah, marina, syuhairah, tasnim, hafsah, alimah, dan izzah. mereka itu sahabat saya...marhalah khassah 2006-2007 dalam kenangan.

syeikh ibrahim(guru kelas) dan ustaz dahlan (mudir)

bila lah lagi dapat berkumpul dengan sahabat-sahabat saya. masing-masing sudah membawa haluan hidup sendiri. ada yang belajar di mesir, jordan, kuin, uia dan seorang lagi menjadi suri rumah sepenuh masa. moga moga ukhwah yang terbina kerana allah ini mempunyai saham untuk dituntut di akhirat kelak.

ya rasulallah

2010-02-26T13:48:00.001+08:00

hari ini hari jumaat. hari yang dinanti nanti dalam seminggu. hari yang penuh ketengangan dan keberkatan. hari raya bagi umat islam. hari yang dibukakan pintu-pintu syurga dan hari lahir utusan teragung MUHAMMAD SAW.

hujan lebat membasahi bumi. sungguh menyegarkan. seingat saya, ini adalah kali pertama dalam sem 2 hujan lebat pada subuh jumaat. mashallah. hujan rahmat mengiringi pada hari kelahiran baginda s.a.w. petanda apakah ini?

semalam sebelum iftar jamaie bersama-sama sahibah, sempat juga diselitkan tazkirah ringkas mengenai sirah sahabat rasulullah bilal bin rabah r.a, muazzin rasulullah. bagaimana kisah hidup dan perjuangannya yang dapat meruntun jiwa.

ujian hidup bilal bermula apabila tuan beliau menyuruhnya untuk membunuh rasulullah iaitu sebelum waktu keislamannya. perintah itu mengejutkan bilal r.a kerana beliau sangat berhasrat untuk memeluk islam. keengganan beliau untuk membunuh rasulullah mengundah azab dan seksa pada dirinya. beliau sanggup diseksa dan di azab demi rasulullah. YA, DEMI RASULULLAH.

renugkan sejenak,
apakah yang ada pada diri rasulullah sehingga para sahabatnya sanggup berkorban jiwa raga semata-mata untuk baginda. hebat bukan? itulah dia MUHAMMAD UTUSAN TERAGUNG. mampukah kita mengambil dan mencontohi kehebatan rasulullah dalam kehidupan seharian kita?

(teringin sangat untuk berjumpa dengan orang yang tarikh lahirnya sama dengan rasullah)

sabar dan syukur

2010-02-01T22:54:00.001+08:00

dua keadaan apabila dimiliki oleh seseorang dia dicatat oleh allah sebagai orang yang bersyukur dan sabar.

dalam urusan AGAMA (ilmu dan ibadah) dia melihat kepada yang lebih tinggi lalu meniru dan mencontohinya.

dalam urusan DUNIA dia melihat kepada yang lebih bawah, lalu bersyukur kepada allah dia masih diberi kelebihan.

-hadis riwayat tirmidzi

لا تيأس

2010-01-28T03:42:00.003+08:00

ومن يتهيب صعود الجبال يعيش ابد الدهر بين الحفر

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الذي يخاف ولا يحب صعود الجبال

سوف يعيش طول العمر

بين الحفر وسيبقى ضعيف

لذلك يجب على الانسان ان يحاول

ولا يقل هذا صعب

لانه اذا قال هذا صعب

فانه لن يستطيع ان يعمل اي شئ

berhati lembut

2010-01-05T16:06:00.000+08:00

Allah memiliki 99 nama yang indah.. antaranya Allah AL-LATIF. apa sebenarnya maksud al-latif ini?

MAHA HALUS/ LEMBUT...

adakah kehidupan manusia akan terkesan jika mereka mengimani dan melaksanakan asma allah ini(dan asmaNya yang lain)? YA. kehidupan manusia akan sangat terkesan.

saudara seislamku yang dikasihi,

manusia yang mengambil asma Allah Al Latif adalah orang yang mata batinnya halus-terbuka untuk melihat keindahan batin di dalam segala sesuatu.
Dia menunjukkan kepada orang beriman luasnya rahmat Allah yang dicurahkan kepada makhluk-Nya dan membimbing mereka untuk bersyukur. Ucapan dan perbuatannya lemah lembut lagi indah. BERHATI LEMBUT TIDAK BANYAK MENUNTUT.

Berhati lembut. Betapa indah kehidupan orang-orang yang berhati lembut. Betapa damai dan tenteramnya orang-orang yang berhati lembut. Orang-orang yang berhati lembut, dirinya bagaikan samudera yang luas. Hatinya luas, teduh dan tenang tidak terpengaruh oleh apapun yang terjadi diluar dirinya, kerana luasnya penerimaan dan keikhlasan dirinya atas segala sesuatu. Takdir Allah dalam wujud kelapangan atau kesempitan ia terima dengan hati ikhlas dan lapang. Tidak muncul sekalipun perasaan tidak suka, apalagi menolak apapun bentuk takdir Allah.. bagaimana hal ini boleh terjadi?

Semua itu terjadi kerana hati yang lembut mampu menangkap kelembutan hikmah yang terjadi atas segala sesuatu. Allah Ar Rahman Ar Rahim tidak mungkin menakdirkan sesuatu yang tidak berdasarkan kasih sayang-Nya. Walaupun secara kasar, takdir itu terasa pahit menggetirkan. Hamba yang berhati lembut dengan demikian tidak banyak menuntut, terlebih kepada Tuhan-Nya. Gerak hati dan fikirannya dibimbing oleh keyakinan yang tidak tergoyahkan bahwa Allah Maha Penyayang, yang kerana itu pasti menyayangi dirinya.

Orang yang berhati lembut juga tidak banyak menuntut kepada sesama manusia. Ia berusaha menjadi cahaya bagi orang-orang disekitarnya dengan menebarkan cahaya iman dan akhlak yang mulia. Ia berbuat baik kepada siapapun tanpa kecuali, tanpa membeza-bezakan. Ketika ia berbuat baik kepada sesama makhluk, ia yakini Allah ridha kepada dirinya. Ia berusaha untuk tidak menyakiti siapapun, karena ia yakini jika menyakiti hamba-hamba-Nya, maka sama ertinya dengan menyakiti-Nya.

Orang yang berhati lembut selalu lapang dada dan menerima seadanya manusia-manusia lain di sekitar dirinya. Ia tidak banyak menuntut agar semua orang sesuai dengan keinginan dirinya. Ia sedari bahwa setiap orang adalah dengan rahmat dan ketentuan-Nya yang berbeza-beza.

Alangkah damainya hati orang-orang yang berhati lembut. Ia menjadi cahaya dimanapun ia hidup. Menjadi penerang ditengah kegelapan kehidupan orang-orang disekitarnya. Orang-orang menjadi tenang dan tenteram jika berdekatan dengan hamba-hamba yang berhati lembut. Orang yang berhati lembut kehadirannya selalu ditunggu. Ketiadaannya dirindu. Karena ia selalu menjadi penyejuk qolbu orang-orang disekitarnya.

Tidakkah kita semua berharap memiliki hati yang lembut?mashallah,indahnya hidup manusia yang berhati lembut...hati kita pula bagaimana?

rujukan: nurulhayat.org

kasih-sayang Allah

2010-01-02T21:34:00.000+08:00

kasihnya allah pada manusia..

ketahuilah,,

Allah ARRAHMAN ARRAHIM ALWADUD

mengasihi hambanya lebih berganda-ganda

daripada kasih seorang ibu terhadap anaknya

tetapi, manusia lupa akan hakikat ini

..apakah kemaksiatan kepadaNya tanda kasih kita?

saudara seislamku yang tercinta,

manusia mendapat kebahagiaan dan ketenangan

HANYA perintah dan larangan allah DITAATI dan DIPATUHI

sahaja dan semata. tiada selain daripada itu.

ayuh saudara seislamku,

mari kita mensyukuri nikmat-nikmat allah

segera membalasnya dengan memberikan sepenuh ketaatan

KEPADANYA..

sedarlah wahai saudaraku,

kita hanyalah HAMBA kepada TUAN yang maha ESA

apa nilai hamba di sisi tuannya?